人生十大法则.doc

人生的十大法则
1. You will receive a body.
You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period.
2. You will learn lessons.
You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called Life. Each day in this school you will learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons.
Growth is a process of trial and error: Experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately "works".
4. A lesson is repeated until learned.
A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. Once learned, you then go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end.
There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.
6. "There" is no better than "here".
When your "there" has become a "here", you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here".
7. Others are merely mirrors of you.
You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up to you.
You have all the tools and resources you need.
What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. The answers to Life's questions lie inside you. 
All you need to do is look, listen and trust.
10. You will forget all of this.

1.你将拥有一个躯体。
你可以喜之也可以恶之，但它毕生都会属于你。
2.你将接受教育。
你入读了一所叫做"生活"的大学的全日制非正式学校。在学校的每一天你都将接受教育。你可以爱你所爱或者视之无聊而又豪无裨益。
3.没有过失，只有教训。
成长就是反复"尝试-犯错"的渐进过程，或者说是实验。那些所谓"失败"的实验和最终"奏效"的实验一样重要，都是这个过程的一部分。
4.同样的教训会不断重复直到你真正领悟为止。
同样的教训会以不同的形式不断出现在你面前直到你学会为止。而一旦你学会了，就会马上进入下一课的学习。
5.学无止境。
生活的每个部分无不包含可学之处。只要活着，你就学无止境。
6.当你终于拥有了不曾拥有的东西，你只会发现自己又在向往别的东西，它们看起来总比你拥有的东西要好些。
7.他人只是你的镜子。
不要去爱慕或憎恶别人的品性，除非这些品性在你自己身上也能找到，而你以同样的态度处之。
8.要过怎样的生活由你作主。
你掌握着陆一切你所需的工具和资源，怎么用全由你作主。决策权在你手中。
9.生活的答案皆藏心中。
你只须观察，聆听和信任。
10.生活中你会忘记所有这些准则。

Do not wait 不要等待
Don't wait to be loved, to love
Don't wait to be lonely, to recognize the value of a friend.
Don't wait for the best job, to begin to work.
Don't wait to have a lot, to share a bit.
Don't wait for the fall, to remember the advice.
Don't wait for pain, to believe in prayer.
Don't wait to have time, to be able to serve.
Don't wait for anybody else pain, to ask for apologies
neither separation to make it up.
Don't wait...
Because you don't know how long it will take.
不要等被爱了以后，才要去爱
不要等到寂寞了，才明白朋友的价值、重要
不要非要等到一份最好的工作，才要开始工作
不要等拥有许多后，才开始分享一些 
不要等到失败后，才记得别人的忠告 
不要等到痛苦了，才开始要祷告 
不一定要等到有时间，才能够去付出、服务 
不要等别人受伤了，才来乞求原谅 
也不要，等分开了，才来挽回 
不要等待 
因为，你不知道等待需要花费多少的时间

Don't go for looks;they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Find the one that makes your heart smile.不要只追求漂亮的外表，它会欺骗你的眼睛；不要只追求财富，那只不过是过眼云烟；追寻那个让你内心微笑的人。
To love someone,it is not because of the convenience he or she provides,but the visible growth of yourself in him or her.喜欢一个人，不是因为他或她能提供哪些方便，而是在他或她身上，可以看见自己的成长。

Whatever you do,remember that you do it for yourself,then you will not complain. 无论做什么，记得是为自己而做，那就毫无怨言。