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Would you mind keeping your voice down?
If you spend some time in an English-speaking country, you might hear the term “etiquette”. It means normal and polite social behavior. This may seem like a difficult word at first, but it can be very useful to understand.
Etiquette is not the same in every culture or in every situation. For example, standing very close to the person you are talking with is quite common in some Asian countries. However, if you do this in Europe, some people might feel uncomfortable. Even in China, we all know that etiquette is not the same in all situations. Perhaps we think that talking loudly in our own home is fine, but there are other places where talking loudly is not allowed. For example, most people would agree that talking loudly in library , a museum, or a movie theater is impolite. Even if you are with your friends, it is better to keep your voice down in public places. In fact, we should also take care not to cough or sneeze loudly in public.
If we see someone breaking the rules of etiquette, we may politely give them some suggestions. Perhaps one of the most polite way is to ask someone, would you mind doing this or would you mind not doing that. For example, if someone cuts in front of you in a line, you could ask them, Sorry, would you mind joining the line? If someone is smoking on the bus, you could ask: Excuse me, could you please put out that cigarette? People do not usually like to be criticized , so you have to be careful how we do this.
Although rule os etiquette can often be different, some rules are the same almost everywhere in the world. For example, dropping litter is almost never allowed. If you see someone you know doing this, you can ask them, Would you mind picking it up?
Would you mind standing up?
Would you mind sitting down?
Would you mind saying “ I love English”?
Would you mind opening the door for me please?
Would you mind speaking English with me in class ?
Would you mind giving me a piece of paper
Would you mind lending me your book?
Would you mind giving me a pen?
Would you mind doing...
Could you please touch your face?
Could you please touch your eyes?
Could you please give me a bottle of water, I am thirsty.
Could you please take note when I am teaching?
Could you please help me?
Could you please teach me how to swim?
Could you please do...
Two ways of making request:
Would you mind doing
Could you please do
Which way do you prefer
Which way is more polite?
If we follow the rules of etiquette, of It will be more polite.
If we do not follow the rules of etiquette, It will be impolite.
It is polite to follow the rules of etiquette.
It is impolite to break the rules of etiquette
If someone break the rules of etiquette, He or she will be criticized
When you are not happy about something or someone, you will criticize
Do you sometimes criticize your students?
Do you like to criticize the other people?
Do you sometimes criticize Xijinping
Can you criticize Li Keqiang in public?
When you criticize the other people, Do they feel comfortable or uncomfortable?
I feel uncomfortable if someone criticizes me.
I feel uncomfortable when you do not speak English in class
I feel uncomfortable when I am tired.
When do you feel uncomfortable?
Read the following statement and decide whether it is polite, impolite or acceptable
Stand very close to a person you are talking with
Look at the eyes of the person you are talking with
Talk loudly in your home
Talk loudly in a library or a museum
Talk loudly with your friends in a restaurant
Smoke on a train
Smoke in your home
Cough loudly in public
Sneeze loudly in public
Stand very closely to the person in front of you in a bank
Cut in line
Wait in line
Drop litter on the street
First paragraph
Find the meaning of etiquette
Find two adjectives which are used to describe etiquette
Paragraph two
Etiquette is not the same in every culture
Find one example from the book
Etiquette is not the same in every situation
Find one example from the book
Paragraph three
Answer the following questions
1. What would you say to a person who breaks the rules of etiquette
2. What would you say to a person who cuts in front of you in a line
3. What would you say to a person who smoke on the bus
Paragraph four
What is never allowed
What would you say to him or her.
Match the paragraph with the best summaries
Paragraph one:
Paragraph two
Paragraph three
Paragraph four
1. We have to be very careful how we criticize people
2. They way people behave is different in different cultures and situations
3. Sometimes, rules of etiquette are the same almost everywhere.
4. Etiquette is a very important idea to understand
5. We might want to ask someone to behave more politely if we see them breaking a rule of etiquette
6. People in China and Europe have different ideas about etiquette.
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