高等教育大学英语期末考试.pptx

单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,#,Every person is capable of great love.,While there are many different ways to define love and,there many different ways to love someone.,Here a general guide to loving.,1 Say it.,When you say the words“I love you they”they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them,not what you simply want to feel.When you say it,make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.,2 Empathize,Put yourself in someone elses shoes.,Rather than impose your own expectations,or attempt to control them,to understand how they feel,where they come from,and who they are.,Realize how they could also love you back,just as well,3 Love unconditionally,If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations,then it not love at all.,If you have no intention of improving that persons life,or allowing that person to be themselves,and accepting them as they are,and not who you want them to be,then you are not striving to love them unconditionally,3,4 Expect nothing in return,That doesnt mean you should allow someone to mistreat,or undervalue you.,It means that giving love do not guarantee receiving love.,Try loving just for the sake of love.,Realize that someone may have a different way of,showing his or her love for you;,do not expect to be loved back,in exactly the same way.,5 Realize it can be lost,If you realize that you can lose the one you love,then you have a greater appreciation of what you have.,Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.,Dont make an idol of the person you love.,This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.,6 Never stop loving,Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.,Warnings,You must love yourself before you can love another,Dont ask for love.You should receive love because you partner wants to give you love.,Do not force love.,There is always the risk of getting hurt,so remember to fully love and trust in your constant decision to love rather than fear.,If something comes to an end,try to let go rather than holding on.,-,Thank you!,