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Marry—upon-graduation
Good morning, boys and girls！
If you are a boy， you may be interested in my topic， if you are a girl, you may be more interested in the topic。 There is one thing that one person alone can not own. It looks beautiful and mysterious .It concerns man and woman. I believe almost everyone here have illusion and expectation for it. That is marriage。 Believe it or not , there is a trend and fashion among 80 or 90 young group-—marry-upon-graduation.
The following is the investment on the reason why the graduates choose marry-upon-graduation。

A. 37％ of graduates make the decision for the sake of love. Being in love for many years, they know and rely on each other。 It's time to harvest the fruits of pure love。
B. Anther group, about 28％, do have illusion and exception for marriage. In their eyes， marriage is beautiful and mysterious。 They can have a warm family and quite life after graduation。
C. Graduates about 15.4％, choose to get married to prepare for work. Having solved the problem of marriage and child， they can devote themselves into there career in the future。
D. There are still some people who wants to get material guarantee through marriage, as the saying goes, "well done is inferior to marry well” (干得好不如嫁得好)
E。 Further study has formed a threat on women’s marriage。 A lot of highly educated women worry they may become leftover— women.

This phenomenon has aroused hot dispute in society. So what the choice will bring for the graduates?
Firstly， they can really benefit from the early—arrived marriage。 They can harvest the purest love and become the spiritual pillar for each other。 Besides， they find a warm home even though they don't have obvious achievement in career. Finally，Married women in the workplace are more popular and competitive。
However, We must pay attention to the potential crisis and conflict. No experience and not mature mind usually leads to a lot of contradictions of the family. They are unable to transform the role， adapt to the marriage life soon。 The lack of economic foundation will also pose threats to their marriage。
Finally, I want to say, there is nothing really bad or perfect。 If you meet your Mr Right or Miss Right and you both have prepared well, marry—upon—graduation is OK。 Well, I give best wishes to you and I, to all the people facing graduation.