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-范文最新推荐- 同事和你争功怎么办 当你挖空心思想出一个好主意，或者你勤奋工作为公司发展做出了极大贡献时，却有人试图把这份功劳归为己有。面对这种情况，你该怎么办？总不能整天气急败坏吧？下面几种方法或许对你有所帮助：（l）用短信澄清事实当然，首先写的信不能有任何坏的影响，短信内容一定不能让对方产生不快。写信的主要目的是要委婉地提醒一下对方，自己当初随便提出的想法，是怎样演变到今天这个令人欣喜的样子。在信中适当的地方，你可以写上有关的日期、标题，可以引用任何现存书面证据。在短信的最后要建议进行一次面对面的讨论，这是很重要的，这能让你有机会再次含蓄加强一下你的真正意思：这主意是你想出来的。如果真的有人把你的功劳忘记了。想把功劳归属于自己，那么这个方法倒能为你争回功劳起一定作用。（2）夸赞挖你功劳的人，然后重申功劳是自己的说这番话的时候，要再一次对这同事的独一无二的才能和见解大加赞赏。这种方法对职业女性来说特别需要。很多研究者发现，女性员工喜欢从“我们”的角度而不是“我”的角度来做事，所以她们的想法和首创就常常会被男性同事挪用。如果着眼于事情的积极一面你的同事也是想方设法要干出最好的工作，而且他（她）对要做的事情也有独到的看法也许会有助于你解决这个可能很棘手的问题。当你觉得这个方法比较适合你应用时，你就应早点行动，如果等你的同事把你的想法散布开时再行动，困难就大得多了。（3）退出争夺战初看起来，这似乎不是一种方法，或者不能算是一种很好的方法。但对某些人来讲，这或许是最好的。你应该问一问你自己：哪个更重要，是把这个想法付诸实施，还是独自拥有想出这个点子的名誉？这是一个复杂的问题，特别是对女性来说，什么时候应该跟男同事理直气壮地理论“挪用他人想法”的问题，什么时候又应该为本机构做出一些牺牲呢？在做出决定时，应该考虑一下，要打这场“官司”得花费多少精力。在某些情况下，比如你正要接受一次重要的提升，要付出大量的时间和精力；或者除了“原则问题”之外其他并无妨碍，而要证明所有权只能使你疲惫不堪也许还会让你的上级生气，让他们纳闷你为什么不能用你的时间来做点更有意义的事情。在这些情况下退出争夺战显然是明智之举，是上上之策。.同事和你争功怎么办责任编辑：飞雪 阅读：人次 听皮耶罗讲话多了的人，都会有一种感觉，虽然这位尤文队长现在选择了职业足球作为自己的职业，但他将来一定还可以成为一个成功的律师或俱乐部的经营者（尤文有这方面的打算），因为皮耶罗简直太善于言辞了。三十而立，刚刚过完30岁生日的皮耶罗，显得更加的成熟。感谢了马拉多纳、卡西尼（意大利众议院主席，尤文的球迷）和里皮等人的祝贺，皮耶罗以一种特别成熟的处世态度，完美地对付了刁钻的新闻记者，以至于卡佩罗都开了他的玩笑说：“感觉上，我们的斑马王子和我一样，都已进了不惑之年，他甚至显得比我还老到。对他的这种成熟，我只能是说欣赏。”但为了卡佩罗的这个欣赏，皮耶罗却付出了不小的代价，因为里皮离开尤文后，尤文队长的日子并不好过。姑且把卡佩罗那句让皮耶罗疯狂的“托蒂比皮耶罗要强那么一点”放一边，单是将帅间的配合，皮耶罗就有意见。冠军杯上表现得忽高忽低，意甲前11轮，皮耶罗有5次被中途换下，而每次他下场了，尤文都有进球，其中有两次，替换他下场的人直接进了球。本赛季前，普拉蒂尼曾高声批评过皮耶罗，卡佩罗在最初的信任后，也更多地是在怀疑。结果，皮耶罗的日子难了。前11轮，除了5次被换下，他还有1次替补上场（比分没变化），另外4场比赛，因为伤病或状态不好没上场，只有那么一次，对手是弱小的锡耶纳，皮耶罗在3比0之后下场休息，他本人当时进了两球。这些，都让皮耶罗说话时底气不硬。处境艰难让皮耶罗更加谦虚谨慎，卡佩罗更欣赏托蒂和卡萨诺则激励了皮耶罗的斗志。近来，他的状态回升。出色的脚下技术回来了，与莱切的比赛，把对方后卫晃倒在地后再射门得分就是新的例证。不过谨慎的卡佩罗还是没有让皮耶罗打满全场，第14分钟进球，第59分钟因伤被卡波换下。这种遭遇见多了，尤文队长把一切都看得开：“很正常，这是出于体力、伤病或战术的考虑。”当然，谁坐板凳都不可能开心，但考虑到那么多比赛要踢，休息一下反而有好处。虽然频繁被换下的总是自己，皮耶罗还是尽力为主教练着想：“或许我提前下场，可以给球队带来好运”队长的“通情达理”，迫使卡佩罗不得不表现得备感欣慰：“皮耶罗的举止确有正面意义，给全队作了表率，队员总需要接受教练的安排。”卡帅愿意相信，皮耶罗这次的发言是以集体为重。但随后的“我没偏向谁，或对谁有成见，所有换人都出于战术考虑”，这更像是卡帅在为自己辩护。”成熟了的皮耶罗，对这次没能进金球奖前50人候选名单也很淡然。“之前我就料到了，上赛季我的成绩不好，尤文丢了冠军，欧洲杯的成绩也不好，现在正好从头开始。”.和卡佩罗比老到皮耶罗口才足以当律师责任编辑：飞雪 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