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同事和你争功怎么办

当你挖空心思想出一个好主意，或者你勤奋工作为公司发展做出了极大贡献时，却有人试图把这份功劳归为己有。面对这种情况，你该怎么办？总不能整天气急败坏吧？下面几种方法或许对你有所帮助：（l）用短信澄清事实当然，首先写的信不能有任何坏的影响，短信内容一定不能让对方产生不快。写信的主要目的是要委婉地提醒一下对方，自己当初随便提出的想法，是怎样演变到今天这个令人欣喜的样子。在信中适当的地方，你可以写上有关的日期、标题，可以引用任何现存书面证据。在短信的最后要建议进行一次面对面的讨论，这是很重要的，这能让你有机会再次含蓄加强一下你的真正意思：这主意是你想出来的。如果真的有人把你的功劳忘记了。想把功劳归属于自己，那么这个方法倒能为你争回功劳起一定作用。（2）夸赞挖你功劳的人，然后重申功劳是自己的说这番话的时候，要再一次对这同事的独一无二的才能和见解大加赞赏。这种方法对职业女性来说特别需要。很多研究者发现，女性员工喜欢从“我们”的角度——而不是“我”的角度来做事，所以她们的想法和首创就常常会被男性同事挪用。如果着眼于事情的积极一面——你的同事也是想方设法要干出最好的工作，而且他（她）对要做的事情也有独到的看法——也许会有助于你解决这个可能很棘手的问题。当你觉得这个方法比较适合你应用时，你就应早点行动，如果等你的同事把你的想法散布开时再行动，困难就大得多了。（3）退出争夺战初看起来，这似乎不是一种方法，或者不能算是一种很好的方法。但对某些人来讲，这或许是最好的。你应该问一问你自己：哪个更重要，是把这个想法付诸实施，还是独自拥有想出这个点子的名誉？这是一个复杂的问题，特别是对女性来说，什么时候应该跟男同事理直气壮地理论“挪用他人想法”的问题，什么时候又应该为本机构做出一些牺牲呢？在做出决定时，应该考虑一下，要打这场“官司”得花费多少精力。在某些情况下，比如你正要接受一次重要的提升，要付出大量的时间和精力；或者除了“原则问题”之外其他并无妨碍，而要证明所有权只能使你疲惫不堪……也许还会让你的上级生气，让他们纳闷你为什么不能用你的时间来做点更有意义的事情。在这些情况下退出争夺战显然是明智之举，是上上之策。..同事和你争功怎么办责任编辑：飞雪 阅读：人次

听皮耶罗讲话多了的人，都会有一种感觉，虽然这位尤文队长现在选择了职业足球作为自己的职业，但他将来一定还可以成为一个成功的律师或俱乐部的经营者（尤文有这方面的打算），因为皮耶罗简直太善于言辞了。三十而立，刚刚过完30岁生日的皮耶罗，显得更加的成熟。感谢了马拉多纳、卡西尼（意大利众议院主席，尤文的球迷）和里皮等人的祝贺，皮耶罗以一种特别成熟的处世态度，完美地对付了刁钻的新闻记者，以至于卡佩罗都开了他的玩笑说：“感觉上，我们的斑马王子和我一样，都已进了不惑之年，他甚至显得比我还老到。对他的这种成熟，我只能是说欣赏。”但为了卡佩罗的这个欣赏，皮耶罗却付出了不小的代价，因为里皮离开尤文后，尤文队长的日子并不好过。姑且把卡佩罗那句让皮耶罗疯狂的“托蒂比皮耶罗要强那么一点”放一边，单是将帅间的配合，皮耶罗就有意见。冠军杯上表现得忽高忽低，意甲前11轮，皮耶罗有5次被中途换下，而每次他下场了，尤文都有进球，其中有两次，替换他下场的人直接进了球。本赛季前，普拉蒂尼曾高声批评过皮耶罗，卡佩罗在最初的信任后，也更多地是在怀疑。结果，皮耶罗的日子难了。前11轮，除了5次被换下，他还有1次替补上场（比分没变化），另外4场比赛，因为伤病或状态不好没上场，只有那么一次，对手是弱小的锡耶纳，皮耶罗在3比0之后下场休息，他本人当时进了两球。这些，都让皮耶罗说话时底气不硬。处境艰难让皮耶罗更加谦虚谨慎，卡佩罗更欣赏托蒂和卡萨诺则激励了皮耶罗的斗志。近来，他的状态回升。出色的脚下技术回来了，与莱切的比赛，把对方后卫晃倒在地后再射门得分就是新的例证。不过谨慎的卡佩罗还是没有让皮耶罗打满全场，第14分钟进球，第59分钟因伤被卡波换下。这种遭遇见多了，尤文队长把一切都看得开：“很正常，这是出于体力、伤病或战术的考虑。”
当然，谁坐板凳都不可能开心，但考虑到那么多比赛要踢，休息一下反而有好处。虽然频繁被换下的总是自己，皮耶罗还是尽力为主教练着想：“或许我提前下场，可以给球队带来好运……”队长的“通情达理”，迫使卡佩罗不得不表现得备感欣慰：“皮耶罗的举止确有正面意义，给全队作了表率，队员总需要接受教练的安排。”卡帅愿意相信，皮耶罗这次的发言是以集体为重。但随后的“我没偏向谁，或对谁有成见，所有换人都出于战术考虑”，这更像是卡帅在为自己辩护。”成熟了的皮耶罗，对这次没能进金球奖前50人候选名单也很淡然。“之前我就料到了，上赛季我的成绩不好，尤文丢了冠军，欧洲杯的成绩也不好，现在正好从头开始。”

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·theblacksheepofthefamily有辱门楣的人
Helosteverythingingablingandwascalledtheblacksheepofthefamilybythisrelatives.
·takeashinetosomeone一见就中意
Sheisananimal-lover.Shetakesashinetowhateveranimalshemeets.
·givesomeonetheshirtoffone’sback为某人慷慨解囊，毫不吝啬的接济某人
HeworksinthecharityorganizationandstronglybelievesthathewhogivesotherstheshirtoffhisbackwillbeblessedbytheGod.
·loseone’sshirt输得精光
Themandidn’tleaveLasVegasuntilhelosthisshirt.
·knowwheretheshoepinches知道问题所在
Awiseleadershouldbeonewhoknowswheretheshoepinchesandknowswhattodowithit.
·ashotinthedark瞎猜
Ididn’tknowwhichbuttonwasforTV.Ipushedone,andTVwasturnedon.Itwasmereashotinthedark.
·givesomeonethecoldshoulder冷待某人
Ihategoingtoexpensivehotels.Thereceptionistalwaysgivesmethecoldshoulderwhensheseesmyplainclothes.
·stealtheshow喧宾夺主
CinderallastoletheshowinthePrince’sparty.
·sidewithsomeone与某人站在一起，支持某人
I’myourfriend,butI’mafraidIwon’tsidewithyouonthatissue.
·haveamemorylikeasieve记性太差
Ithinkacomputernotebookwillbeofgreathelpforme,sinceI’vegotamemorylikeasieve.
·outofclearbluesky意料不到
Yesterday,outofaclearbluesky,Mylandladygavemeaone-daynotice,askingmetomoveout.
·.makeaslipofthetongue说走嘴
Theclassburstintolaughterwhentheteachermadeaslipofthetongue.Hemeanttosay”Goodmorning”tostudents,buthesaid”Goodafternoon”.
·beonthesly办事狡猾
Theboywassmokinginthecornerwhenhisfathercaughthimonthesly.
·forasong以级低的价钱，廉价地
Igottherareeditionofthebookforasonginthefleamarket.
·soundsomeoneout试探某人的意见
Haveyousoundedtheprincipaloutonpostponingthefinalexamination?
·callaspadeaspade有什么就说什么
Wearegoodfriends.Callaspadeaspade.Don’ttellmeinaround-aboutway.
·spickandspan干干净净
Thehousewifealwayskeepsherkitchenspickandspan.
·goforaspin出去兜风
Thecitydwellerslikegoingforaspintothecountryonweekends.
·spine-chilling令人毛骨悚然
Helikeshorriblefilms.Thosespine-chillingpicturestousarepleasanttohiseyes.
·Thespiritiswilling;butthefleshisweak.心有余而力不足
A:Howmanytimeshaveyoutriedquittingsmoking?B:It’snotthatthespiritisnotwilling,butthatthefleshisweak.
·winone’sspurs受到奖赏
Shewonherspursasapopularwriterimmediatelyafterherfirstbookbecameabest-seller.
·putthesqueezeonsomeone对某人施加压力
Thenewsituationisputtingthesqueezeonallcompaniesengagedinthisbusiness.
·standuptosomeone与某人大胆对抗
Thesoldierstooduptotheofficerandwasplaceinconfinement.
·thankone’sluckystars感到万幸
Ishouldthankyourluckystarsthatyoumissedtheplanewhichcrashedintothesea.
·getofftoaflyingstart来了开门红
Ourkindergartengotofftoaflyingstartbyhaving100childrentosignupinthefirstmonth.
·gosteadywithsomeone与异性稳步发展关系
MaryandTimgotmarriedaftergoingsteadywitheachotherfortwoyears.
·watchone’sstep当心
You’rebetterwatchyourstepwhenyougooutwithJohn.Heisatrouble-maker.
·astick-inthe-mud老古董
Heisastick=in-the-mudandwillneverinvesthismoneyinstock.
·beastickler吹毛皮的人
Idon’tliketogotoherhome.Sheisasticklerforneatness.
·turnsomeone’sstomach令人作呕
Hersweetvoiceturnedmystomach.
·fallbetweentwostools鸡飞蛋打
Tyingtostraddletwoboats,hetookuptwojobswithtwosalaries.Atlast,unabletodoeitherwell.
·weatherthestorm度过难关
Thewoodenhouseweatheredthestorm.
·harponthesameoldstring老调重弹
Hereallygetsonmynerves.Healwaysharpsonthesameoldstringbypromisingusapaidholiday.,butheneverkeepsit.
·havesomeonedancingonastring任意摆布某人
Bettyisahousewifeandnoincome.Herhusbandhasherdancingonastring.
·pullstringsforsomeone为某人走后门，幕后操作
Inthematerialworld,moneypullsthestrings.
·bestuckonsomeone迷恋上某人
Tomwasstuckonthegirlatthefirstmeetingalthoughitwasablinddate.
·tosweet-talksomeoneinto(outof)doing……甜言蜜语地让某人做（不做）……
Theaccountantsweet-talkedthebossoutofcheckingheraccount.
·beinfullswing达到高潮，全面展开
Chinahasopeneditsdoorto
theoutsideworldfortwentyyears.Reformsineverywalksoflifeareinfullswing.
·beasleepattheswitch玩忽职守
Thegoal-keeperwasasleepattheswitchandlettherivalteamgoalatthelastminute.
·suit……toaT对……再适合不过了
ThisnewjobsuitsmetoaT.
·turnthetables扭转局势
Don’tworry,yourhusbandknowshowtoturnthetablesandcrackdownonthoseguys.
·drinksomeoneunderthetable把某人灌醉
Hehasahollowleg.Hecandrinkallofushereunderthetable.
·keeptabsonsomething/someone掌握情况,密切关注
Hehassubscribedtennewspapersinordertokeeptabsonthenewdevelopmentsinmarketmanagement.
·keepsomeonedownanotch挫某人的傲气
Themonitorlikestoorderusaround.Heneedstobekeptdownanotch.
286——300
·Takeitoutonsomeone拿别人出气
Theboywasreprimandedbyhisfather.Hetookitoutonhisball.
·Anoldwives’tale无稽之谈
DoyouthinktheexistenceoflifeonMarsisanoldwives’tale?
·Bethetalkofthetown满城风雨
ThedeathofthePrincessDianahasbeenthetalkofthetown.
·Leaveabadtasteinsomeone’smouth给人留下坏印象
OnceIwenttoafamousuniversity.Buttheuntidycampusleftabadtasteinmymouth.
·Crocodiletears假惺惺的眼泪
SomeofmybusinesspartnerscametocomfortmewhenIlostalmosteverythinginonebaddeal.
·Loseone’stemper发脾气
Youdon’thavetoloseyourtemperabouttriflethings.
·Throughthickandthin有甘也有苦
Thecouplehavegonethroughthickandthinformanyyears.
·Haveanotherthinkcoming大错特错
IfyouthinkI’measilytakenin,youarehavinganotherthinkcoming.
·Thin-skinned神经过敏
Sheissothin-skinnedthat,wheneverwetalkaboutsomethinginalowvoice,shewillthinkwearereferringtoher.
·Jumpdownsomeone’sthroat严厉训斥某人
Theboysavedagirlfromtheriverandwentbackhome.Seeinghimallthrough,hismotherjumpeddownhisthroat.
·Stickoutlikeasorethumb特别扎眼
Ihatemybignose.Itsticksoutlikeasorethumb.
·Beallthumbs笨手笨脚
Ijustlearnedtotype.Iwasallthumbs.
·Turnthumbsdownon…不赞成……，反对……
Thebossturnedthumbsdownonthenewonpromotionscheme.
·Twiddleone’sthumbs无所事事
WhydowehavetoworkovertimewhilepeopleinPRdepartmentaretwiddlingtheirthumbs?
·Beatsomeone’stimewithsomeone勾引别人的女朋友
Heisstrange.Hedoesn’tgosteadywithanygirl,butenjoysbeatingothers’timewiththeirgirlfriend.
301——315
·Onthetipofsomeone’stongue就早嘴边上
Amaninblackcametoaskaboutmyson’swhereabouts.Mywordswereonthetipofsomeone’stonguewhenIfoundthemanhadaguninsidehispocket.
·Holdone’stongue保持沉默
IcannolongerholdmytonguewhenIseesomanywildanimalshavebecomeextinct.
·Keepaciviltongueinone’shead说话有礼貌
Achildistaughttokeepaciviltongueinhisheadwhenheissmall.
·Blowone’stop勃然大怒
Myneighborblewhistopwhenhesawhishedgeswerecutbysomeone.
·Carryatorchforsomeone单方想念某人
ThoughJanehasbeenengagedwithMr.Hall,Jimmystillcarriesatorchforher.
·HavetheMidastouch有生财的运气，手气好
You’dbetterfindRogersasyoustockbroker.HehastheMidastouch.
·Betouchandgo万分危险
Thepatientisoutofdangernow,butitwastouchandgoforawhile.
·Throwinthetowel认输
Shetriedtosavetheirmarriagebytalkingherhusbandoutoftakingdrugs.Butshefinallythrewinthetowel.
·Havetheinsidetrackforsomething处于有利的地位
I’manArtstudent.Idon’thavetheinsidetrackforapplyingforthatjob.
·Keeptrackofsomeone/something掌握……的情况
Heiskeepingtrackofallmyoldfriends.
·Beonagravytrain走运，有赚钱的机会
Youwillbeonagravytrainifyoucangetthatantique.Itisworthmoremoneythanitisoffered.
·Haveamindlikeasteeltrap头脑特别快
Hehasamindlikeasteeltrap.Hecanrememberanewwordevenifhemeetsitonce.
·Barkupthewrongtree弄错目标
Thedetectivehasbeenfollowingthemanforaweek.Butitturnsoutthathehasbarkedupthewrongtree.
·Betooquickonthetrigger操之过急，行动过于仓促
Youarealwaystooquickonthetrigger.Youjumpintohisthroatbeforehecanexplain.
·Askfortrouble自找麻烦
Areyouaskingfortroublebychallengingtheemphasisonqualitieseducation.Youareaskingfortroubleifyoucheatintheexam.
316——330
·blowone’sowntrumpet自吹自擂
Ifyouwanttosellmore,yo
ushouldlearntoblowyourowntrumpet.
·Notgivesomeoneatumble不理睬某人
ThoughJacksonhasaskedMaytomarryhimformanytimes,shejustwon’tgivehimatumble.
·Talkturkey打开天窗说亮话
Let’stalkturkey,seeifyouagree.I’llget55%oftheshare,andyou’llgettherest.
·Notsayuncle拒不认错，不服输
Idon’tknowwhenhehaseversaiduncletoanyone.
·Takeadimviewof…对……抱悲观态度；不赞同
Teachersinmiddleschoolsusuallytakeadimviewofstudents’talkinguptoomanyafter-classactivities.
·Walkalloversomeone任意欺负某人
Myneighborwalkedalloverme.Heleftrubbishinmydoor,stampedonmygrassandwaxmywindows.Idecidedtofightback.
·Drivesomeonetothewall把某人逼得走投无路
Hehateslearningforeignlanguages.Butthechallengingsituationdriveshimtothewall.Hedecidestogotoaneveningclass.
·Drivesomeoneupthewall把某人搞得心烦意乱
WouldyoupleaseturndownthatRapmusic?Ithasdrivenmeupthewall.
·Beinhotwater陷入困境
I’msorryIcan’tlendyoumoney.Imyselfaminhotwater.
·Likewateroffaduck’sback满不在乎，不起作用
Icandonothingabouthim.Criticismrollsofflikewateroffaduck’sback.Itgoesintohisoneearandcomesoutoftheother.
·Meetone’sWaterloo惨败
ThefamouslawyermethisWaterlooatthehandsofafledglinglawyer.
·Fishintroubledwaters浑水摸鱼
Don’ttellhimthatweneedthatmaterialbadly,Heisgoodatfishingintroubledwatersandwilltakeadvantageofit.
·Makewaves兴风作浪
Everythingwentsmoothlyinherweddingceremony,whenherformalboyfriendcametomakewavesbydrinkingthebridegroomunderthetable.
·Haveawaywithsomething/someone有应付……的办法
Shewillmakeagoodteacher.Sheseemstohaveawaywitheventhemostdisobedientboy.
·Pavethewayfor…为……铺平道路
DonationfromeverywalksoflifehaspavedthewayfortheHopeProjecttoproceed.
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