NLP经典名言.doc

NLP经典名言1Life provides you with time and space. Its up to you to fill it.生命只给你时间与空间。如何填满它是你自己的事。2The secret of happiness is not having more, but wanting less.快乐的秘密并不是拥有更多，而是渴求更少。（不需要任何条件就可以感觉足够快乐的人才是真正的智者，因为他们做到了自我掌控）3Underneath attitude are your beliefs values and rules. Your attitude is only their shell.态度的背后是你认为事情该怎么样（信念、价值观和规条）。态度只是你的主观的外壳。4No belief can be absolutely effective in all the situations.没有任何信念在所有的情况里都绝对有效。（没有真正的“万全之策”）5The words of a sentence cannot depict all the meaning in that sentence.词句永远无法说清楚想要传达的全部意思。（所谓“道可道，非常道”）6If I may ask where the road is ? The road is right beneath your feet.“敢问路在何方？路在自己脚下。”（你的人生路要靠自己来走，别人无法代替）7Nothing other than your own feelings is true in this world.在这个世界上，没有什么比你的感觉更真实的了。8The plum flower is proud, because it choose to blossom in the coldest moment.梅花傲视群芳，因为它可以选择在最冷的时间开花。9Natures law: an exception always arise when one expects things to happen a certain way.大自然的法则是：每当你说事情“必须这样”时，它便会给你一个例外。10Because we are not perfect, so we have no right in asking for a perfect world.因为我们并不完美，所以我们没有资格要求世界完美。11A person who does not say I must has no weakness. Nobody can attack a person who has no weakness.不说“必须XX”的人便没有弱点，没有弱点的人别人是无法攻击的。12FACTS TRUTH！事实不等于真相。13When you keep your eyes and mind on the problem, you will not see the many opportunities around you. (by Bert Hellinger - the Family Constellation Master)当你把注意力和思想放在问题上，你将看不到身边众多的机会。注意力的焦点决定了思考的结果。 （波特海宁格家庭系统排列大师）14Many people prefer living in pain than to have their problems solved. (by Bert Hellinger - the Family Constellation Master)很多人宁愿生活在痛苦之中，也不愿解决自己的问题。 （波特海宁格家庭系统排列大师）15The only way Out is In. (Robert Dilts NLP Master)“摆脱”的唯一办法是“深入”。 （罗伯特迪尔茨NLP大师 ）16Your fear prevents you from facing it, and yet not facing it is the cause of your fear.恐惧使你不敢面对它；而不面对它，正是你恐惧的原因。17Anything that is very clear inside your mind, may be said within 20 words. If not, it is only because you have not thought it through thoroughly.任何你想你清楚的事，总可以用20个字说出来。若不可以，只是未曾透彻思考而已。18Pressure comes from feeling that ones strength is less that what the task requires.压力来自感觉自己的能力比事情所需要的能力小。19Difficulty comes from thinking the gain is less than the cost.“困难”是以为“得到的比付出的少”（或者说付出的多余所得到的）。20Fear is not willing to pat the presumed price.“恐惧”是不愿付出“自以为需要付出的代价”。21Anger yields power to change a situation that is not acceptable.愤怒给人力量去改变一个不能接受的情况。22Sadness makes us value more that we still possess, including whats in our memory.悲哀让我们更为珍惜尚且拥有的东西，包括回忆。23The feeling of weakness comes from focusing on things that we cannot control.软弱的感觉，来自把注意力放在自己不能控制的东西上。24The only one you can be sure to go through your life together is yourself, because apart from yourself, you can control nobody.唯一肯定可以与你度过一生的是你自己，因为除了你自己外，没有任何人是你能够控制的。25We always operate according to our map of the world inside our mind, and not from what the world really is.我们行事的标准，从来都只凭自己脑里认为世界应该是怎样，而不是依据真实的是怎样。（我们所有的判断都是主观的，没有真正的客观。）26Wisdom is to accept. When you can accept everything that happens in the world, you will have supreme wisdom.智慧就是去接受。当你能够接受世界上的一切，你便有最大的智慧。27Every day I learn something new that makes me change something I used to believe yesterday.每天我都学到新的东西，使我改变了一些旧有的信念。28One who has difficulty to get into an emotion, would be difficult get out of one ales.一个难以进入情绪的人，亦难以从情绪中摆脱出来。29When the mountain does not turn, the water turns.山不转水转。30The world doesnt change, but your perception of it can.你不能改变这个世界，但你总可以改变你对这个世界的看法。31A person standing at the bottom of a valley, no matter which direction he chooses, he could only go higher.站在低谷的人，无论朝那个方向走，都只会走得更高。（否极泰来如果真的是坏到极致了，那么下一步就会开始变好了。）32How can you know if you dont try.你不尝试怎会知道？33I can live with losing the fight, but I cannot live whit not fighting. (A Famous Boxer)我可以接受输掉比赛，但决不能容许自己放弃战斗。 （某著名拳师）34Courage is not without fear. Courage is , in spite of fear, one can still move on.勇气不是没有恐惧。勇气是纵然有恐惧，还能坚持下去。35Confusion makes you learn more, and clarity enables you to use it better.迷茫使你学得更多，而清晰使你使用得更好。36The first step of learning is always confusion, because you have moved from the know to the unknown.学习的第一步总是迷茫混乱，因为你是从已知走入未知的领域。37The sole criterion to determine heather one should do something or not: Does it bring me closer my goals in life, on the win-win-win basis?用来衡量某件事应否做的标准只有一个：那是否使我在三赢的基础上更接近我的人生目标。38People have no direction because they have no destination.没有方向的人是因为他们没有目标。39Passion alone cannot win the revolution; Passion just makes martyrs.光靠满腔热血，不会使革命成功，只能制造烈士。40There is no failure until one decides to stop trying.除非你已经决定终止尝试，否则就没有失败。41Whether you say you can or you cannot, you are both right, because you have the control of yourself in your own hands.无论你说你能够做到抑或不能做到，你都是对的，因为控制自己的权利在你手里。42We cannot demand a perfect world; but we can have our success and happiness in this imperfect world.我们不能要求世界完美；但是我们可以在不完美的世界里取得自己的一份成功快乐。43The past is history, tomorrow a mystery, today is a gift, this is why it is called the Present.过去是一段历史历史，明天是一个迷团，今天是上天赐予的礼物，这也是为什么英文里“今天”和“礼物”是同一个词。44Hypocrisy is a for myself behavior labeled as for the other.“虚伪”就是：为自己而做的事，贴上“为别人而做”的标签。45Respecting a person is accepting his beliefs,valuse and rules.尊重一个人就是接受他的信念、价值观和规条。46Dont look for God in your teacher.不要在导师身上寻找上帝。47Similarities between two persons enable then to get along; however ,their differences enable the to grow.两个人相同之处使他们能够相处，两个人不同之处，却使他们能够成长。48The only meaning for any two persons staying together is to help each other to grow. When this meaning ceases to exist, it is the time for them to part.两人在一起时的唯一意义就是帮助对方成长；当这个意义中止时，也就是他们应该分开的时候了。49In communication, however right you are in what you say is irrelevant, more important is whether the other person understands the message or not.你说得多对没有用，对方是否听得明白更重要。50Expressions and behavior review the truth, worlds are there only to confuse you.从表情及行为可以清楚地知道对方内心是怎样一回事；他说的话只不过是在混淆你而已。51Giving other people space is accepting their differences. When we can accept people who are different from us ,we are growing.给别人空间，就是接受他们与你的不同之处。当我们能够接受与自己不同的人，我们就成长了。52The highest form of expressing love is like the breeze and rain -the serve without saying.“春风化雨、润物无声”这是爱的最高境界。53Parents caring should provide the space for children to grow up; and not to prevent children from growing.父母的关爱，应该是提供空间让孩子成长，而不是妨碍孩子成长。54Dont choose a captain who has sailed only calm water.不要选择一个只会在平静的海洋中航行的船长。55The Best is an end. As long as you intend to continue ,you could always pursue better.“最好”是终点。只要你准备走下去，应该是不断追求“更好”。（所谓“没有最好，只有更好”）56The only way to beat changes is : to learning more and faster than what the changes bring.战胜转变的唯一秘诀是：“学的”比“转变带来的”更快更多。57Dont tell me why it cannot be done; tell me how it can be done, because that is why you are here.不要告诉我为什么做不到；告诉我如何做得到，因为那才是你存在的原因。以上摘自李中莹老师的人生钻石小册子。传播请注明出处。