英语短文-大学新生处理人际关系.doc

About freshmen interpersonal skills For university freshmen speaking, the relationship between the students it is everyones a more serious problem. In the first months after admission, The bedroom of some students have good relations, everybody the life also neat and uniform. The next months, because the students were from different region and different families, they in the thought idea, the value standard, life style and living habits exist obvious differences, there were many conflicts between each other. I think we can from the following several aspects to solve this problem. First, Learn to include other classmates。 Many students not in residence(居住，住宅，这里作住校) experience, the university before a personal life free, suddenly want to and several people share a bedroom, it must include the other peoples life style. If other peoples way of life have hindered（受阻，阻碍）your life, will need to gently put forward opinions, and undertakes appropriately adjust ，such as adjusting work and rest time. Second,Active and other students communication。 To deal with the relationship between the students, but also to do the broad, to have strict, avoid by all means is to me as the center, in the usual life, active and the students to say hello, the initiative（主动） and classmate speech, took the initiative to help others. In addition, to take the initiative to do some public work, in order to increase the students favor. Third,Pay attention to communication skills。 With classmates in should be honest, but in to the students make a complain, must think, pay attention to methods and skills. Need to pay attention to is, give advice must not in front of peoples surface(表面), lest make the other party embarrassment, lose face. College life is very important in the life of the period, good interpersonal skills are directly related to the university life is good or bad, so we will through the above several aspects to learn to deal with interpersonal relation in the university. Finally, hope you can happy read university life. 关于大一新生处理人际关系的技巧对于大学新生来说，同学之间的关系是困扰大家的一个比较严重的问题。在入学后的第一个月，寝室里几个同学亲密无间，大家生活也整齐划一。到了第二个月，由于同学们分别来自不同的地域和不同的家庭，他们在思想观念、价值标准、生活方式、生活习惯等方面都存在着明显的差异，彼此之间出现了不少冲突。我认为可以从以下几个方面去解决这个问题。第一、学会包容其他同学。很多同学没有住校经历，上大学之前一个人生活自由自在，突然要和几个人共用一个寝室，就必须包容别人的生活方式。如果别人的生活方式有碍于你的生活，就需要委婉地提出意见，并适当地进行自我调整(如调整作息时间)。第二、主动和其他同学交往。要想处理好同学之间的关系，还要做到对人宽、对己严，切忌以我为中心，在平时的生活中，主动与同学打招呼，主动和同学讲话，主动帮助别人。此外，要主动去做些公共工作，以增加同学们的好感。第三、注意交流技巧。在与同学相处时应坦诚相待，但在给同学提意见时，必须动脑筋，讲究方法和技巧。需要注意的一点是，给别人提意见一定不能当着众人的面，以免使对方难堪、丢面子。 大学生活是人生中非常重要的时期，良好的人际关系直接关系着大学生活的好坏，所以我们要通过以上几个方面去学会处理大学中的人际关系。 最后，希望大家能够愉快的读过大学生活。 （注：专业文档是经验性极强的领域，无法思考和涵盖全面，素材和资料部分来自网络，供参考。可复制、编制，期待你的好评与关注）