mind-your-manners.pptx

Lesson 2 Free talk:Do you think youre a person with good manners?Why?1.Greeting people:2.What you should do:3.What you shouldnt say:Western mannersWestern mannersGood morningGood morningGood afternoonGood afternoonGood eveningGood eveningHow do you do?How do you do?HelloHelloHow are you?How are you?Greeting people:Greeting people:Nice to meet you!Nice to meet you!Raise his hat.1.If a man is wearing a hat,how should he greet you?2.When you first meet someone,what should you do?3.If the woman doesnt offer her hand,what should you do?Nod your headWhat you should do:What you should do:Shake his hands.Where are you going?Where have you been?Have you had your dinner?What you shouldnt say:What you shouldnt say:handshakekissembraceshake nodbow kiss your hand to sb.Western mannersWestern mannersWestern mannersWestern manners10()1.Use the fork with your right hand.()2.Put your napkin(餐巾餐巾)on your lap.()3.Start eating as soon as your food is served in front of you.()4.Ask for a second bowl of soup.()5.Use your fingers when eating chicken.()6.Finish eating everything on your plate.()7.Talk loudly while eating.()8.Make other people drink more spirits(烈酒烈酒)than they can take.IPIIPPIIDecide which of the following behaviors are polite or impolite at a western dinner party.Write P(polite)or I(impolite)in the brackets.A friend from Britain named Jack invites you to have dinner at his home at 7:00 pm.What will you do if you want to make a good impression on the others?1.Before dinner,arrive _ _.2.At the dinner party,follow _ _.For example,speak _ and _ a lot.3.When leaving,Say _ and _.In a word,knowing the manners will help you makea good impression on the others.on timetable mannersthanksgoodbyequietlysmileWhat will you do if you want to make a good impression on the others?Task 1Task 1 Listen to the dialogues and complete theFunction File.Dialogue 1:FormalChristina:Excuse me?Could you pass the lemon and salt,(1)_?Man:Yes,certainly.Christina:(2)_.Man:Youre(3)_.pleaseThank youwelcomeBeing politeDListening Strategies:Prediction1.1.Try to think of possible answers.2.Focus on the language the people use(formal or informal.)3.Use your general knowledge to help you.Dialogue 2:InformalBoy:So what do you think we should do this weekend?What about going canoeing again?Girl:Yeah,last time we went it was great!Or we could take our flashlights Christina:Er,Id(4)_ not,thanks.Id rather stay cosy and read my novel.Girl:All right,Or how about going to the circus?ratherBDialogue 3:FormalChristina:(5)_,Mrs Davis?Do you think I(6)_ speak to you?Mrs Davis:Yes,dear.Christina:Would you(7)_ giving me and my classmate a lift to school?We need Mrs Davis:Of course not.In about ten minutes,Ok?We can go in the jeep.Christina:Thanks a lot.Thats very(8)_ of you.Mrs Davis:Its no(9)_.Any time.Excuse mecouldmindkindtroubleADialogue 4:InformalBoy:Hi,Christina.Have you got the blankets and sheets you borrowed?Christina:Oh,Ive forgotten them!Im (10)_.Boy:Thats Okay,bring them tomorrow.I need them for our camping trip.Christina:Yes,I will,I(11)_.really sorrypromiseCTask 2Task 2 Make a list of the polite expressions in the Function File we use.a)to ask for something politelyExcuse me,could you pass the lemon and salt,please?b)to reply to someones thanksYoure welcome.c)to politely refuse an invitationId rather not,thanks./Its no trouble!Any time.d)to make a request to someone you dontknow very welle)to thank someone for doing something for youDo you think I could speak to you?Would you mind giving me and my classmate a lift to school?Thanks a lot.Thats very kind of you.f)to apologize to a friendOh,Ive forgotten them!Im really sorry.Group 1:Ask a stranger to close a window on a train.Group 2:Decide with a friend what to do at the weekend.Group 3:Ask a waiter to give you the menu.Group 4:Decide where to go on holiday with a friend.Make a dialogue with your partner accordingto the situation above.Imagine what happens.Task 3:Role-playsTask 3:Role-playsSpeaking Strategies1.1.Decide how formal or informal the situation Decide how formal or informal the situation is.is.2.Decide which role you are going to play.2.Decide which role you are going to play.3.Pay attention to the suitable expressions.3.Pay attention to the suitable expressions.You can use some expressions in the You can use some expressions in the Function File Function File.4.Pay attention to the intonation.4.Pay attention to the intonation.SHOWING A LOT OF FEELINGSSHOWING NO FEELINGS“Open”cultures:Showing every-thing they feelMixed cultures:In between“open”and“closed”cultures“Closed”cultures:Not showing theirfeelingsJapaneseBritishAmericansItalians ItaliansJapaneseBritishAmericansChinesequietershyermore modestTask 4Task 4Listening Strategies1.1.Dont worry if you cant understand everything.2.2.Listen for important words and phrases.Task 5Task 5Pre-listening:Discuss and complete the table.Typical behaviour(topics)Italians(headings)British(headings)Japanese(headings)Americans(headings)showing anger in serious situationsuse a lot of hand movementslook directly at peopleinterrupt/speak at the same timesay“please”and“thank you”a lotxx=yes,often;X=not so often or neverListening Strategies1.Make sure you know what you have to do.1.Make sure you know what you have to do.2.Use the 2.Use the headingsheadings or or topicstopics from the table to from the table to help you while youre listening.help you while youre listening.3.While listening,fill in the blanks.It can help3.While listening,fill in the blanks.It can help you.you.Task 6Task 6 While-listening:Listen to Part 2 of the interview,and fill in the blanks.1.People from“open”cultures,like the_,tend to use a lot of more _ movements.People in more“closed”cultures,like the _,_ Europeans and even _,dont use hand movements nearly as much.ItalianshandJapaneseNorthernAmericansTask 7Task 7Post listening:Discuss and complete the table(check).Typical behaviourItalians British Japaneseshowing anger in serious situationsuse a lot of hand movementslook directly at peopleinterrupt/speak at the same timesay“please”and“thank you”a lotAmericansxxxxxTask 6Task 6While listening:Listen to Part 2 of the interview,and fill in the blanks.Americans2.People from _ cultures usually look more _ at the person they are speaking to.The _and _often look at people to start _and then they look_.People from Eastern cultures like _,_ look directly at the other person.To look at someone very directly is extremely _.“open”directlyBritishJapanAmericanswithawayneverrudeTask 7Task 7Post listening:Discuss and complete the table(check).Typical behaviourItalians British Japaneseshowing anger in serious situationsuse a lot of hand movementslook directly at peopleinterrupt/speak at the same timesay“please”and“thank you”a lotAmericansxxxxxxxxTask 6Task 6While listening:Listen to Part 2 of the interview,and fill in the blanks.3.People from _cultures are more likely to _ or speak at the _ time as the other person.In _ cultures,one person starts speaking _ when the other has _.In a place like _,people _ interrupt each other.They also wait for a while before _,so there is more _ _.“open”interruptsame speaking“closed”neveronlystoppedJapansilenceTask 7Task 7Post listening:Discuss and complete the table(check).Typical behaviourItalians British Japaneseshowing anger in serious situationsuse a lot of hand movementslook directly at peopleinterrupt/speak at the same timesay“please”and“thank you”a lotAmericansxxxxxxxxxxTask 6Task 6 Listen to Part 2 of the interview,and fill in the blanks.4._and _ people seem more polite than _ and people from _ cultures._ people usually use“please”,“Thank you”and“Im sorry”more often.In _,it is very important to say“please”and “thank you”even for the _ things.If you dont,it sounds very rude.In some other cultures,like _ cultures,to say“please”and“thank you”all the time sounds a bit false.JapaneseAmericansBritishBritishLatinBritainsmallestLatinTask 7Task 7Post listening:Discuss and complete the table(check).Typical behaviourItalians British Japaneseshowing anger in serious situationsuse a lot of hand movementslook directly at peopleinterrupt/speak at the same timesay“please”and“thank you”a lotAmericansxxxxxxxxxxxxTypical behaviourChineseshowing anger in serious situationsuse a lot of hand movementslook directly at peopleinterrupt/speak at the same timesay“please”and“thank you”a lotxxxComparing Cultures Politeness costs nothing but gains everything.礼貌不用花钱，却能赢得一切。礼貌不用花钱，却能赢得一切。When in Rome,do as the Romans do.入乡随俗入乡随俗.Summary:Guessing gamesGuessing games anger fear joy sorrow contempt 轻视轻视 surprisedisgust厌恶厌恶Different facial expressions show different feelings:1235467disappointed shy Swearing（发誓）（发誓）thinkingGuessing gamesGuessing gamesFacial expressions-?Guessing gamesGuessing gamesThumbs up!Thumbs down!Bite your nails!Kiss your hand to sb.!Make a face!Keep your fingers crossed!Touch your stomach!Do it!Turn left and Sit down!Action showAction show1.Write a short report to describe Chinese people.Are they open or closed?Is formal language very different from informal language?(Some information may be available on the Internet).2.Finish Ex 9 on Page 39.