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阅读理解材料15
（人际关系1）
设计人：张瑞珍 2013.9.11
1．When it comes to friends, I desire those who will share my happiness, who possess wings of their own and who will fly with me. I seek friends whose qualities illuminate（照亮）me and train me up for love. It is for these people that I reserve the glowing hours, too good not to share.
2．When I was in the eighth grade, I had a friend. We were shy and "too serious" about our studies when it was becoming fashionable with our classmates to learn acceptable social behaviors. We said little at school, but she would come to my house and we would sit down with pencils and paper, and one of us would say："Let's start with a train whistle today." We would sit quietly together and write separate poems or stories that grew out of a train whistle. Then we would read them aloud. At the end of that school year, we, too, were changing into social creatures and the stories and poems stopped.
3．When I lived for a time in London, I had a friend. He was in despair（失望）and I was in despair. But our friendship was based on the idea in each of us that we would be sorry later if we did not explore this great city because we had felt bad at the time. We met every Sunday for five weeks and found many excellent things. We walked until our despairs disappeared and then we parted. We gave London to each other.
4．For almost four years I have had a remarkable friend whose imagination illuminates mine. We write long letters in which we often discover our strangest selves. Each of us appears, sometimes in a funny way, in the other's dreams. She and I agree that, at certain times, we seem to be parts of the same mind. In my most interesting moments, I often think: "Yes, I must tell...."We have never met.
5．It is such comforting companions I wish to keep. One bright hour with their kind is worth more to me than the lifetime services of a psychologist（心理学家），who will only fill up the healing（愈合的）silence necessary to those darkest moments in which I would rather be my own best friend.
Words and expressions
1．desire vt．渴望，期望 n．欲望；渴望 2．seek v．寻找；谋求；寻求
3．reserve vt．预定，预约（座位，房间等）；保留
4．acceptable adj．可接受的 5．behavior n．行为，举止
6．whistle v．吹口哨；（水壶，机器）鸣叫；发出笛声；呼啸而行；嗖嗖地移动
7．aloud adv．出声地；大声地 8．part v．离开；分别；隔离；分散
9．remarkable adj．非凡的；显著的 10．imagination n．想象（力）
11．funny adj．滑稽的；难以解释的，难理解的
12．comfort v．安慰，抚慰n．舒适，安逸；安慰
13．companion n．陪伴；（志趣相投的）伙伴 14．silence n．沉默
15．necessary adj．必要的 16．be serious about 对……认真 17．in despair 绝望
According to the passage, answer the following questions
1．What’s the main structure of the passage ? 总分总
2．How many friendships does the passage mention ? 3
3．According to the passage，do the friendships have something in common ? Yes
If so，what are their similarities ?
In the friendships, the author’s friends can illuminate him/her，and train her up for love.
Questions
1．In the eighth grade, what the author did before developing proper social behavior was to .
　 A．become serious about her study B．go to her friend's house regularly
　 C．learn from her classmates at school D．share poems and stories with her friend
2．In Paragraph 3，"We gave London to each other" probably means ______.
　 A．our exploration of London was a memorable gift to both of us
　 B．we were unwilling to tear ourselves away from London
　 C．our unpleasant feeling about London disappeared
D．we parted with each other in London
3．According to Paragraph 4, the author and her friend _______.
　 A．call each other regularly B．have similar personalities
　 C．enjoy writing to each other D．dream of meeting each other
4．In the darkest moments, the author would prefer to ______.
A. seek professional help B. be left alone
C. stay with her best friend D. break the silence
5．What is the best title for the passage?
A．Unforgettable Experiences B．Remarkable Imagination
　 C．Lifelong Friendship D．Noble Companions 【答案】DACBD
Key structures
1．But our friendship was based on the idea in each of us that we would be sorry later if we did not
explore this great city because we had felt bad at the time.（分析句子）
2．It is for these people that I reserve the glowing hours, too good not to share.
3．One bright hour with their kind is worth more to me than the lifetime services of a psychologist
（心理学家），who will only fill up the healing（愈合的）silence necessary to those darkest
moments in which I would rather be my own best friend.
4．①For almost four years I have had remarkable friends whose imagination illuminates mine.
　②We met every Sunday for five weeks
　 ③When I lived for a time in London, I had a friend.
Key points
1．Would rather
①He would rather continue to be in despair．他宁愿继续失望。
②I would rather not be given the chance．我宁愿不会被给予那机会。
③I would rather not have been given the chance . 我宁愿当时没有被给予那机会
④I would rather you pretended to be ill tomorrow. 我宁愿你明天假装生病.
⑤I would rather she had sought advice. 我宁愿她当时征求建议了
⑥I would rather you hadn’t reserved the ticket. 我宁愿你没定那张票.
⑦I would rather not have reserved the ticket. 我宁愿没定那张票.
2．在too...to结构中too后接形容词、副词的原形，to后接动词原形，表示否定意义“太……而不能……”。 但下列情况下它表示肯定意义：
（1）too后接的词是glad，pleased，ready（甘心的，情愿的），eager，anxious，delighted，
thankful，satisfied，willing，happy等时，这类词是表示心情（情绪）的，该句型表示肯定．这时too相当于very．
Tom was too glad to hear from his friend yesterday afternoon.
昨天下午，汤姆收到朋友的来信感到非常高兴．
Lei Feng was too ready to help others. 雷锋乐意帮助别人。
（2）当too前或to前有否定词构成双重否定时.
eg：English is not too difficult to learn. 英语并不太难学.
He is too wise not to see that. 他很聪明，不会不懂这一点.
（3）与这些词连用时，too前还常加上only，all，but，just，simply等副词。意思不变，
因为这些词加上too后与very同义.
eg：I'm only too glad to see you . 见到你非常高兴.
They are but too pleased to hear the news. 他们听到这个消息,非常高兴.
3．①—Does Liu Hui serve in the army？
—No，but he in the army for 3 years．
②—Does Liu Hui serve in the army？
—Yes，he in the army for 3 years．
A．serves B．served C．is serving D．has served
③—Does Liu Hui serve in the army？
—Oh，he in the army since he from university．
A．serves；graduated B．served；graduated
C．had served；graduated D．has served；graduated

阅读理解材料15
（人际关系1）课后练习题
1．As is known to everyone，a dove（鸽子） peace．
A．changes B．presents C．represents D．replaces
2．Allow children the space to voice their opinions， they are different from your own．
A．as if B．even if C．unless D．until
3．I have a table at the restaurant．
A．observed B．deserved C．preserved D．reserved
4．would rather练习
①He said he would rather it right now．
A．doing B．do C．did D．had done
②Who would rather the TV set?
A. had repair B. have repaired C. repaired D. have to repair
③—Did you scold the boy for his mistakes?
—Yes, but it.
A. I’d rather not do B. I’d not better do
C. I’d rather not to have done D. I’d rather not have done
④How silly I was ! those unreasonable remarks.
A. would rather not make B. would rather not have made
C. would rather make D. would rather have made
⑤Who(m) would you rather with you. Peter or John?
A. have go B. have to go C. have gone D. having go
⑥I’d rather you ____ have many comments on the issue for the time being.
A. don’t B. wouldn’t C. didn’t D. shouldn’t
⑦The manager would rather his daughter __in the same office.
A. had not worked B. not to work C. does not work D. did not work
⑧—Do you mind if I keep pets in the building?
—_____.
A. I’d rather you didn’t , actually B. Of course not, it’s not allowed there
C. Great ! I love pets D. No, you can’t
⑨—I believe we’ve met somewhere before.
—No， .
A. it isn’t the same B. it can’t be true C. I don’t think so C. I’d rather not
⑩I’d rather you just in bed and anything for at least three weeks.
A. stayed ,did B. would stay, didn’t do
C. stayed ,didn’t do D. stay, don’t do
I would rather he to attend the coming conference.
A. will go B. goes C. had gone D. Went
5．时态
①—I haven’t seen you for ages．Where have you been？
—I on leave in Europe．（be）
②—I like British culture very much，and I went to London．
—How long there？（stay）
③The book has been translated into thirty languages since it on the market in 1973．
A．had come B．has come C．came D．comes
④—Have you known Dr. Jackson for a long time？
—Yes，since she the Chinese Society．
A．has joined B．joins C．had joined D．joined
⑤If the weather had been better，we could have had a picnic．But it all day．
A．rained B．rains C．has rained D．is raining
⑥The number of people，who have access to their own cars， sharply in the past decade．
A．rose B．is rising C．have risen D．has risen
⑦My sister is working in the power plant that for just one year．
A．was used B．has been used C．is used D．has used
⑧—I’m sorry to keep you waiting．
—Oh，not at all．I here only a few minutes．
A．have been B．had been C．was D．will be
⑨You don’t need to describe her．I her several times．
A．had met B．have met C．met D．meet
⑩All the preparations for the task ，we’re ready to start．
A．completed B．complete C．had been completed D．have been completed
6．①Dania is my colleague， once had a hard life．
②Dania is my colleague， life was once hard．
③Dania is my colleague，for life was once hard．
④Dania is my colleague，and life was once hard．
7．When it comes to a happy life，many wealth．
A．live；desire B．living；hope C．live；expect D．living；desire
写作练习：
①谁的生命中都会有友谊伴随，他让我们的生活更有意义。介绍一段你经历的友谊，及对你的影响；
②介绍作者的三段友谊及对他的影响。（两个话题中任选一个）

阅读理解材料15
（人际关系1）配套阅读
1．True friends double your happiness and half your burdens. Basically how you would like a true friend to be is what you should be like to your true friends. Trust, forgiveness, responsibility are some elements of a true friendship. True friendships are hard to achieve. And what’s more, life is short. So treasure these friends if you already have them. If you don’t, continue to search, because once you have them, life will become so much easier to live, no matter what happens. I have been through very difficult times and I dare say, without my friends, I would not have made it.
2．Friendships need lots of energy and patience to maintain them. Not to mention time. When your friend needs you, and when things are not going too well on your side, it is often so easy to turn a deaf ear to their requests. It is especially during these times that you must find the strength to help your friend. And it is during these times that your friendship will be made stronger.
3．And you must always be happy for their successes, even when things are not going too well for you. It might be hard to do this, but it is something that you need to learn. Think about all the sacrifices your friend has made for you and all the times when he was happy for you despite his own troubles. Think about all the happy times you enjoyed and the sad, difficult times you went through together. That should give you plenty of patience to actually be a true friend. Remember, true friends are the next best thing to family. They will always be your supporters.
Words and expressions
1．double v．（使）加倍；折叠；adj．两倍的；双重的；成双的
2．burden n．负担；重担；v．担负 3．forgive 原谅；宽恕；forgiveness U 原谅；宽恕
4．responsibility n．责任 5．element n．要素，基本部分；元素（氧，碳等）
6．achieve v．达到（目标，地位，标准）；完成
7．treasure n．财富；珍品；vt．珍视，珍爱 8．energy n．能源；能量；精力；干劲
9．patience n．耐心，忍耐力；毅力，恒心 10．maintain v．维持；保持；维修
11．deaf adj．聋的 12．despite prep．尽管 13．not to mention 更不用说
13．sacrifice n．/v．牺牲 make a sacrifice for / make sacrifices for 为…作出牺牲
Read the passage，and answer the following questions
1．According to the passage，what is true friendship composed of ？
2．①Why are true friends important ?
②Is there any specific information that shows the importance of true friends? If so，where?
3．What situation does the passage mention where we should especially show energy and patience

to our friends?
4．Tell true or false，according to the passage ?
①we can expect a true friend to treat us as we like. （F）
②Once someone is your true friend, you don’t need to spend much time on him/her. （F）
Questions
1．What is the best title for this passage?
A．A Precious Friendship B．A True Friend
C．A Happy Time D．Friend, a Treasure
［答案］B
［解析］文章开篇点题，指明真正的朋友使你的幸福加倍，使你的负担减半，如果你要你的朋友怎么做，你就应该这样做以成为他人的真心朋友。下文围绕着这个论点进行阐述，故答案为B项。
2．According to the passage, to be a true friend, you do NOT need to _______.
A．trust your friends B．forgive your friends’ mistakes
C．spend much money on friends D．be helpful to your friends
［答案］C
［解析］根据第一段的第三句“Trust, forgiveness, responsibility are some elements of a true friendship.”可知，A、B、D三项均是作为真心朋友要做的，而文中没提到要花钱呵护友谊，故答案为C项。
3．True friendships are hard to achieve because _______.
A．friendships can help you through difficult times
B．friendships need lots of energy and patience
C．your friends need you to give more help to them
D．you should be always on your friends’ side
［答案］B
［解析］根据第二段的第一句“Friendships need lots of energy and patience to maintain them.”可知，友谊需要很多精力和耐心去维持，故答案为B项。
4．The underlined phrase “turn a deaf ear to” in Paragraph 2 probably means “_______”.
A．pretend not to know B．take no measures to
C．have no means to D．turn to a deaf for
［答案］A
［解析］根据上下文可知，当你的朋友需要你的时候，有时事情并不利于你这一方的时候很容易对他人的请求置若罔闻，从上下句可以猜测得到它的含义，故答案为A项。
5．From Paragraph 3, we can conclude that _______.
A．a friend won’t achieve success without your support
B．most people in trouble are not happy about their friends’ successes
C．you should support your friends on any conditions
D．a true friend appears only when you have troubles
［答案］C
［解析］根据第三段的第一句“And you must always be happy for their successes, even when things are not going too well for you.”可知，答案为C项。
Key structures
1．①True friendships are hard to achieve.
②Life will become so much easier to live, no matter what happens.