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《李阳疯狂英语-拿手好戏卡》
第一拿手好戏：社交性寒暄的全面总结
    用英语交流，第一关是最平常(ordinary;common)，也是最重要的，几乎构成了日常生活，商务交往中的主要部分。做得好能给人留下深刻印象，使自己如鱼得水，(like a stranded fish put back into water ) 瀟酒应酬。同时也给自己带来巨大语言学习满足感!但这也是最难自如应用的部分!这第一关就是“社交性的寒喧”。当中外人士夸奖我英文说得地道时，我最后发现我并没有和他们深谈。不过就是脱而出这些社交性的寒喧(greetings) 。
   可惜的是，绝大多数中国英语学习者苦学英语这么多年，连最基本的“打招呼”都 没有搞清楚!十岁的中国小孩如果不会用中文打招呼，一定是“弱智”!
  我教的七岁小孩，第一天就能脱口而出下面的精彩句子，你呢？
1. A: How are you doing? (你好吗?)   (比 How are you?更地道，更亲切!学了十年英语的人也没几个会说!下次见了外国人只管脱口而出，一定会一鸣惊人!)
B: I'm doing fine/OK/pretty well/great/super/terrific/so-so.
(很好/好/挺好的/棒极了/太好了/好得不得了/一般。)
   或: Not bad. /The same as ever. /I can't complain too much.
(还过得去/和以前一样/我不能太抱怨。/还不错。)   因为用“How are you doing?”打招呼显得比较亲切，所以如果你不太舒服，可以如实回答：
C: Terrible. I've had a headache all morning.
（难受极了，我整个早上都头痛。）
【额外成就感】
Pretty：
*He made a pretty fortune by selling all his land.(他卖了所有的土地发了大财。)
*Today is pretty cold.(今天挺冷的。)
Great：
*Those werer great days and we were very happy.
(那些日子美好极了，我们过得很幸福。)
*You have a great future.(你前途无量。)
Super：
*We feel this is a super place to live.(我们觉得住在这里真是好极了。)
*You’ll like her, she is super.(你一定喜欢她，她好极了。)
Terrific：
*My mother is terrific at any kind of sewing.(我母亲做任何针线活都棒极了。)
*A:I’ll come and give you a hand tomorrow.(我明天来帮你忙。)     
B:Terrific.（好极了。）
Complain：
*I’ve really got nothing to complain of.(我确实没什么好抱怨的。)
*He complained to me about the food.(他向我抱怨伙食不佳。)
Terrible：
*She is a terrible student.  (她是一极糟的学生。)            
*The food was terrible.    (食物糟透了。)
2. A: How's it going?  (近况如何？)
B: Fine. /Pretty good.   (很好/挺好的。)
A: How's everything with you/going？(你一切如何？)
B: Well, I'm still alive and kicking./So far so good.
(我仍然活蹦 乱跳 的/活着混日子/到目前为止一切都好。)
【额外成就感】
Still：
*I still don’t understand what you mean.(我还是弄不懂你是什么意思。)
*She was still beautiful at the age of forty.(她活到四十岁仍然很美。)
Alive and kicking：
*My grandfather is very much alive and kicking.(我的祖父还健在。)
*You’ll be glad to hear that Bill is alive and kicking.
(比尔现在精神饱满，你听了一定很高兴。)
3. A: How've you been? (你近来怎么样？)
B: All right. 或Does’t make sase. (还好/不算好。)
【额外成就感】
*He has been friendlier lately.   (他近来更友好了。)
*His studies haven’t been improving lately.
( 他的学业最近没什么进步。)
4. A: How are things with you/going?
(一切都好吗？/事情进行得怎样？)
B: Great. 或: I'm just taking one day at a time.
(棒极了/我只是过一天算一天。或：我只是做一和尚撞一天钟。)
【额外成就感】
Thing：
*Things look black  .(前途黯淡。)                 
*Things are looking up.    (情况在好转。)
5. A: What's happening? (你好吗？)
(注：原意为"有什么事"，现在已演变成"你好吗？" )
A: What's happening with you these days?  (你近来好吗？)
B: Nothing much. (没什么。)
【额外成就感】
Nothing：
*Nothing gives me more pleasure than listening to Mozart.
(再没有比听莫扎特的乐曲更让我高兴的事了。)               
*There is nothing interesting in the newspaper.
(报纸上没有什么有趣趣的新闻。)
Happen：
*How did the accident happen? (事故是怎么发生的？)      
*I’d stay if they promoted me,but I can’t see that happening.      
(假如他们提升我，我就留下来，但我看那是不可能的。)
6. A: What's new?/What's up(发生；进行)? (有什么新鲜事？)
B: Not much. / Nothing in particular. / Nothing special. 
(没什么/没什么特别的。)
【额外成就感】
Up:
*I heard a lot of shouting. What’s up?我听见很多喊声，出了什么事？
*I could tell something was up by the look on their faces.
我一看他们的脸色就知道有事。
Particular:
*Is there any particular color you would prefer?你有什么特别喜欢的颜色吗？
*She is a particular friend of mine.她是我特殊的朋友。
Special:
*He did it as a special favor.他做这事算是特别照顾。
*He never drinks except on special occasions.除非在特别场合，他从不喝酒。
7.A:Anything interesting happening?有什么有趣的事情发生吗？
【额外成就感】
*He is not very interesting to talk to.跟他谈话没味道。
*It must be interesting for you.你对那一定很关心。
8.A:How are you (are they/is she/is he)getting along?近来如何？
B:Keeping busy. Yourself ? 一直很忙，你呢？
【额外成就感】
Keep:
*She has the ability to keep calm in an emergency.她有处变不惊的本事。
*Keep quiet.-I’m trying to get some work done.请安静，我要处理一些工作。9.A:How do you feel today?今天感觉如何？
B:I feel like a new man.我感觉象换了一个人似地/我觉得好像脱胎换骨了。
【额外成就感
Feel:
*You’ll feel better after a good night’s sleep.你好好睡上一觉就会好些。
*I feel rotten about not taking the children out.我没有带孩子出去觉得不痛快。
Like:
*I’ve always wanted a garden like theirs.我总想有一座像他们那样的花园。
*I’m going to be a pop star like Michael Jackson.我要当迈克尔.杰克逊那样的流行歌星。
还有两个特别地道的问候是：
*What’s going on? 和 What are you up to? 在忙些什么？
【疯狂联想】学了十年英文，绝大多数人甚至连打招呼这一关都没有突破，真可悲！如果你能将上面的句子一口气脱口而出，一定会吓死外国人的！请立刻找机会试试!
下面提供大量实用的“废话nonsense”，让你快速成为人际交往公关大师！因为在日常生活和工作中，人们互相说的大部分都是一些无关紧要的废话。
1.Are you making progress?你有进展吗？
【额外成就感】
Progress:
*There has been very little progress this term.这学期没什么进步。
*He is making good progress after his operation.他动过手术后病情大为好转。
*Stone is still in the hospital, but he’s making good/rapid progress.世通还在医院，但他的健康恢复得很快。
*He’s not making much progress with his English.他的英语进步不大。
【疯狂联想】上了李阳的课之后，大家可以互相这样问；你的朋友正在恋爱，也可以这样问；中美之间的艰苦谈判之后，也可以互相这样问！请继续联想下去。
2.Did you sleep soundly last night.你昨晚睡得好吗？
【额外成就感】
Sound:
*You’ll sleep sounder for it.你会因此而睡的更加酣畅！
3.Have you gotten over your cold?你感冒好了吗？
【额外成就感】
*She couldn’t get over her shyness.她无法克服羞怯。
*I think the problem can be gotten over without too much difficulty.
我认为问题不难解决。
4.How come you look so tired?你怎么看起来这么疲倦？
【额外成就感】
*How come you’re not studying?你为什么不学习？
*How come I wasn’t told?我怎么没有听说？
5.Why are you in such a good mood?你怎么心情这么好？
【额外成就感】
*He is in a good / bad mood.他的心情好/不好。
*I’m always in a bad mood on Mondays.我每个星期一情绪都很低落。
6.I just stopped by to say hello.我只是顺路过来问个好。
【额外成就感】
*Ask him to stop by for a talk.让他过来坐坐，聊聊天。
7.What a pleasant surprise running into you.碰见你真是太棒了。
【额外成就感】
*It was a pleasant surprise.那是个惊喜。
*It is pleasant to jog in the early morning.清晨慢跑很舒畅。
*Guess who I ran into today? I ran into Stone at the supermarket this morning.你猜我今天碰见谁啦？早上我在超级市场碰见世通了。
8.I’m glad I ran into you. Where have you been hiding lately?
你躲到哪里去了？
【额外成就感】
*Lies cannot hide facts.谎言掩盖不了事实。
*Where are the toys hidden away?那些玩具藏在什么地方？
9.I’ve been thinking about you lately. Let’s talk over coffee.
我最近一直在想着你，让我们边喝咖啡边聊吧。
【额外成就感】
*Do you ever think about your childhood?你回忆过童年吗？
Do you ever think about other people?你从来就不考虑考虑别人吗？
10.You’re just the man I want to see.你正是我想见的人。
11.I haven’t seen you for ages / in years / for a long time.很久没见了。
12.It’s nice to see you again. Have you changed jobs?
再次见到你，真是太好了，你换工作了吗？
【额外成就感】
*You’ve changed a lot since I last saw you.
自从我上次见到你以后，你改变了很多。
*Our plans have changed.我们的计划已经改变。
13.How was your trip to New York?你的纽约之行如何？
14.What has kept you so busy?什么使你这么忙？
【额外成就感】
*Her illness kept her in bed for a week.她因生病而在床上躺了一个星期。
李阳疯狂英语原则：反复大喊！深刻体会！建立感情！脱口而出！
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第二拿手好戏：和陌生人相识相知相交－★非凡的能力
一、首先给大家提供一段最典型的对话，然后是大量的实用“废话”，使你无论在任何场合都能“主动出击”(launch an attack)，建立新的友谊!
A: Mary, this is Stone's brother Jim.(玛丽，这是世通的兄弟吉姆。)
B: I'm very glad/pleased to meet you. (很高兴认识你。)
C: It's a pleasure to meet you. /The pleasure is mine. (认识你是我的荣幸。)
额外成就感】
*It’s been a pleasure to talk to you.(和你谈话是件很愉快的事。)
*Remembering the past was his only pleasure.(回忆往事是他唯一的乐趣。)
B: How do you like China so far? / What's your impression of China? /
What do you think of China?
(你喜欢中国吗？/你对中国印象如何？/你认为中国怎么样？)
【疯狂联想】外国人认为中国人只会说第一句，而且还不会加上“so far”，那么你下次就来个连环炮，吓他一大跳!
C: Its really different from what I expected.(这和我想象中的很不一样。)
【额外成就感】
*I expect (that) he’ll pass the examination.(我料想他会通过考试。)
*This dictionary is more useful than I expected.(这字典比我预期的更有用。)
B: Don't worry. You'll get used to it in no time.别担心，你会很快适应/习惯的。
【额外成就感】
*She got / became used to the new job.(她对那新工作已经习惯了。)
*He’s still not used to life in the city.(他仍然没有适应城市生活。)
*He did it in no time.    (他马上做了那件事。)
【疯狂联想】一段简单的对话我们就学到了这么多东西!如果大家能够“不懂只是一次不懂，糊涂只是一次糊涂”，那么英文早已不是今天这个样子!
请恶狠狠地用“三最法”将下面的句子统统脱口而出!
1. May I have your name, please?  (请问尊姓大名？)
【疯狂联想】以后大家不要再说“What’s your name?这样“粗鲁”，没有“教养”的“低级英文”!
2. I think I've seen you before. You look very familiar.
(我想我以前在哪里见过你，你看起来非常面熟。)
【注】如果你这么说，很少有人会当面拒绝你，而且很快会成为朋友。我曾经在美国领事馆的宴会上和我的学生一起试验过这个方法，效果一流!
3. Say, don't I know you from somewhere? (我是不是在哪里见过你？)
【额外成就感】
*I’ve known Martin for years. (我认识马丁好多年了。)
*We’ve known each other since we were children.(我们从小就认识。)
4. I must have seen you somewhere before. (我一定在哪里见过你。)
【额外成就感】
*I’m going somewhere else this evening.(今晚我要去另一个地方。)
*I know somewhere (where) you can eat Japanese food.
(人认识个地方，可以吃日本菜。)
5. Haven't we met before?   (我们没见过吗？)
6. We have talked of you often.   (我们经常谈到你。)
【注】别人一定会很喜欢听这句话，因为从都希望自己是重要的人。
7. I didn't quite catch your name. /I'm sorry. I didn't get your name. 
 (对不起，我没听清楚你的名字。)
8. A: How do I address you? (我该怎样称呼你？)
B: Please call me Mary. That's my first name. 请叫我玛丽吧，那是我的名字。)
9. How many brothers and sisters do you have?你有多少个兄弟姐妹？)
10. Where are you working now? (你现在在哪里工作？)
11. I've been looking forward to meeting you. (我一直盼望能有幸认识您。)
【额外成就感】
*We’ve been looking forward to seeing you again.(我们非常盼望再见到你。)
*I’m looking forward to the weekend.(我在期待着周末的到来。)
12. I've heard a great deal about you.   (久仰大名。)
13. Is this your first trip to China? /Have you ever been to Guangzhou?
(这是你第一次到中国吗？/ 你以前来过广州吗？)
14. What impressed you the most about Shanghai?
你对上海最深的印象是什么？
【额外成就感】
*The book impressed a lot of people.(那本书在很多人心中留下深刻印象。)
*I was deeply impressed by / at / with his speech.
他的演说给我留下深刻的印象。
*The signs of the city never fail to impress the foreign tourists.
(外车游客无一不对该城市留有深刻的印象。)
*We were most impressed with your efficiency.
(你的工作效率很高，我们极为钦佩。)
【注】：我在英文电台采访外国人的时候，每次都要用到这个句子。
15. May I ask where you are from? (我可以请问您是哪里人吗？)
16. I hope you're enjoying your stay here.(我希望你在这玩的开心)
【额外成就感】
*I enjoyed reading these books very much.我很喜欢读这些书。
*Tom doesn’t enjoy going to school.汤姆不喜欢上学。
17.It always takes time to get used to a new place.
适应一个新地方总需要一段时间。
18.Sorry, I couldn’t help overhearing. Did you mention something about…
对不起，我无意中听见你们的谈话，你是不是提到…
【注】这是和陌生人开始谈话的绝招。
【额外成就感】
*Don’t talk so loud; you may be overheard.别这么大声说话，别人会听见的。
*I happened to overhear what he said.我碰巧听到了他所说的话。
*I couldn’t help laughing.我忍不住笑出来。
二、下面介绍一些用于安排约会的方法：
1.Uh, are you going to be busy this evening?今晚忙吗？
2.Um, I was thinking of going to a movie tonight. Would you like to come?
我想今晚去看电影，你愿意一起去吗？
3.Are you doing anything tonight? I was wondering if you’d like to go to a movie with me.今晚有安排吗？不知道你是否有兴趣和我一起去看电影。
【特别提醒】反复苦练上面这个高级句子，直至脱口而出，从而提高自己口语的层次。
【额外成就感】
*I wonder who he is.我不知道他究竟是谁？
*I wonder whether they will arrive on time.我也不知道他能不能准时到。
4.I’m going to play with a group of friends. Would you like to join us?
我打算和朋友们一起玩，想加入吗？
【额外成就感】
*I’ll join you in a minute.我马上就来找你。
*Ask him to join us for lunch.请他来和我们一起吃午饭。
肯定的回答：
1.That’d be very nice.那太好了。
2.I’d love to.非常愿意。
3.That’s a great idea.这是一个绝妙的主意。
否定的回答：
1.Sorry, I’m afraid I’m busy tonight.很抱歉，恐怕我今晚没空。
2.Tonight’s a problem. What about tomorrow night?今晚不行，明晚怎样？
3.Sorry, I’ve got people coming over tonight.很抱歉，今晚有客人来。
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第三拿手好戏：潇洒（natural）告别
    告别（farewell）和打招呼一样重要，一定要“善始善终”（start well and end well）。不知道如何告别的人也是一个人际交往的失败者，加入李阳疯狂英语行列的朋友要努力成为精通中英文的真正国际人。
A: I really must be going now. （现在我真的该告辞了。）
B: But you just got here. Can't you stay a little longer?
（可你才刚刚到。再多呆一会儿，好吗？）
A: That's very nice of you, but I really can't.您太客气了，可我真的非走不可。
B: Well, it's too bad that you have to go. （真遗憾，你要走了。）
A: Thanks very much. It was a great /lovely party!
（非常感谢，今天的聚会棒极了。）
B: It was our pleasure.    （不胜荣幸！）
【疯狂联想】交谈就象是在打乒乓球，如果你是一个高手，“球”就不会在你这里落地！如果别人说出A，你就要脱口而出B！
挥洒自如2001年王牌精品句荟萃【现在已经2009年啦！！！】
第一部分：一般道别
1. We really enjoyed your company. (我们喜欢与你为伴。)
【额外成就感】
*I always get nervous in her company.(跟她在一起，我老是紧张。)
*He keeps good / bad company. (他和好人/坏人来往。)
2. Well, then, perhaps we can get together another time.
（也许我们可以另找时间聚一聚。）
3. Please give my best regards to your sister.
请向你妹妹转达我最诚挚的问候。）
【额外成就感】
*No one showed the least regard for my feelings.(没有人关心我的感受。)
*My father sends his regards to you.（我父亲向你问好。）
4 I'll be seeing you! (再见)　【绝对地道的美国英语】
5. A: Take care of yourself.（多保重。 /Have a good trip. （旅行愉快。）/Enjoy yourself.好好享受。 /Have fun!开心点！ /Take it easy! （再见。）
B:You too. Bye.彼此彼此，再见。
6. I shall miss all of you. Let's get together soon.
（我会想念你们。让我们在不久的将来再相聚。）
7. I hope I can see you again. /Let's meet more often.
（我希望再见到你/让我们常见面。）
【额外成就感】
*I hope that he will succeed. （我期望他会成功。）        
*We haven’t heard from him for weeks but we’re still hoping for a letter. 
（我们已经有几个星期没有他的消息，但仍然盼望着他的来信。）
第二部分：来宾道别
8. Well, (I'm afraid) I'd better be on my way /leaving. (好啦，恐怕我该走了。)
9. I'm sorry, but I've got to be on my way.(很抱歉，我必须走了。)
10. I'm afraid I stayed too long. (恐怕我呆得太久了。)
11. I think it's about time we got going. (我想差不多是告辞的时候了。)
12. I really have to rush.   (我真的得赶快。)
【额外成就感】
*Don’t rush, take your time. (别急急忙忙的，慢慢来。)
*People rushed to buy the shares.(人们抢着购买股票。)
13. I enjoyed myself very much. (我玩得很开心尽兴。)
【额外成就感】
*We enjoyed our trip to Europe.(这次到欧洲旅行，我们非常愉快。)
*Did you enjoy yourself last weekend? (上个周末你玩得愉快吗？)
14. I'm glad to have met you.  (非常高兴认识你。)
15. I really enjoyed the meal.  (我真的吃得很高兴。)
16. I really had a pleasant /enjoyable(快乐的；令人愉快的) /great evening.
(我真是过了一个快乐/绝妙的晚上。)
【额外成就感】    
*The film was quite enjoyable.   (这部电影很有趣。)
17. I had lots of fun tonight.   (今晚我玩得真愉快。)
That was a wonderful dinner.  (那次晚会好极了。)
I had a wonderful / great time being with you.
(和你们在一起，我度过了美好的时光。)
【额外成就感】
*She is a wonderful mother.  (她是个了不起的母亲。)
*Their life together has been wonderfully happy.(他们在一起的生活极为幸福。)
18. I enjoyed every minute of the party.(这个晚会的每一分钟我都很快乐。)
19. Thank you very much for a wonderful party.
(非常感谢你组织了这么精彩的聚会。)
20. I hope someday maybe you'll be able to visit my family in Beijing.
(我希望将来有一天，你也许能来北京我家里作客。)
【额外成就感】
*This afternoon we’re going to visit a friend in the hospital.  
(今天下午我们将去探望一位住院的朋友。)
*During our stay in London, we visited Buckingham Place.     
(我们在伦敦逗留期间参观了白金汉宫。)
21. I really enjoyed talking with you.(很高兴和您聊天。)［结束谈话的好办法］
【额外成就感】   
*He doesn’t enjoy going to school.  (他不喜欢上学。)
第三部分：主人道别
22.Please don't be in such a hurry.请别这么急。
23.Would you like to stay for dinner?可以留下来吃饭吗？
24.Did you have a good time today?今天玩得开心吗？
25.You’ll have to come and see us soon.你一定要再来看我们。
第四部分：简短小对话
26.A:Thank you for inviting me.谢谢你的盛情邀请。
B:It was a pleasure having you. Please come again.
和你在一起，我们非常荣幸。请有空常来。
【额外成就感】
*I’ve been invited to give a talk at the conference.我已受邀在大会上发言。
27.A:Thanks for all your hospitality.谢谢你的盛情招待。
B:You’re welcome.别客气，欢迎你再来。
28.A:Have a nice weekend.周末愉快。
B:Same to you.你也一样。
29.A:Thank you for everything. 一切谢谢你/谢谢你做的一切。
B:Well, have a nice trip and best wishes to your wife.
祝你一路顺风，并向你太太问好！/代为问候尊夫人。
A:Thanks. I hope we meet again soon.谢谢，希望我们能很快再见。
30.A:If you’re ever in Xi’an, look me up. I’d love to see you again.
如果你来西安，一定要来找我，很想和你再见面。
B:Sure. I will. You can count on that.我一定会。
【额外成就感】
*Don’t