从女权主义角度对比《红楼梦》中林黛玉与《傲慢与偏见》中伊丽莎白的婚姻观-学位论文.doc

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题 目： 从女权主义角度对比《红楼梦》中林黛玉与《傲慢与偏见》中伊丽莎白的婚姻观
学 号： 03110902016
姓 名： 王莹
教 学 院： 外国语学院
专业班级： 英语 09级本科（2）班
指导教师： 朱 江（讲师）
完成时间： 2013年5月15日

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The School of Foreign Languages
Bijie University

Graduation Paper

Title: Comparative the Marriage View of Lin Daiyu in
The Story of Stone with Elizabeth in Pride and
Prejudice from the Perspective of Feminism

Student ID No.: 03110902016
Name: Wang Ying
Class and Grade: 09 Undergraduate (2)
Supervisor: ZHU Jiang
Time: May 2013

The School of Foreign Languages，Bijie University

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课题名称
从女性主义角度对比《红楼梦》中林黛玉与《傲慢与偏见》中伊丽莎白的婚姻观
学生姓名
王莹
学号
03110902016
专业、班级
毕节学院外语系2009级2班
课题简介：（选题的目的、意义、价值、工作思路、研究方案、研究方法、技术路线、创新点）在社会高速发展的今天，拜金主义，享乐主义盛行，小三现象严重，“宁愿在宝马车后面哭，也不在自行车后座上笑”的选择让我不寒而栗。作为21世纪的新女性，我们该有一种怎样的爱情观，婚姻观，真的值得我们好好思考。选择比较林黛玉和伊丽莎白，是我思考很久的结果。虽然他们都是距离我们200多年前的小说里的人物，但是她们对待婚姻爱情的态度依然能给我很多启示。
研究主要步骤：
　　1．阅读《红楼梦》与《傲慢与偏见》两篇名著；
　　2．综合比较阅读探讨、归类；
　 3．完成比较阅读研究报告。
研究方法：
　　（1）文献资料法（图书资源、网络资源）
　　（2）对比分析法

课题内容和任务：本文主要由五部分组成，第一部分为引言，简要介绍红楼梦和傲慢与偏见，第二部分写伊丽莎白与林黛玉的女性意识，第三部分写伊丽莎白与林黛玉的婚姻爱情观。第四部分写伊丽莎白与林黛玉的不同结局的探究，最后是结尾部分，写伊丽莎白与林黛玉婚姻爱情给我们的启示。
进度计划：2013年2月28日以前收集资料，阅读书目，撰写开题报告
2013年3月30日以前完成初稿
2013年5月15日定稿
发出日期
2013．3．7
课题计划完成日期
2013.5.15
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Comparing the Marriage view of Lin Daiyu in the Story of the Stone with Elizabeth in Pride and prejudice from the Perspective of Feminism

Contents

1. Introduction……………………………………………………………………..…….. …….1
1.1 Introduction of the background …………………………………………………..……..……1
1.2 Introduction of the The Story of the Stone……………………………………………….……..……1
1.3 Introduction of the Pride and Prejudice………………………………………...…..…...2
2. Introduction of the feminist ………………………………………………………………….2
2.1 Introduce the feminist of Lin Daiyu ………………………………………………….……….2
2.2 Introduce the feminist of Elizabeth …………………………………………………………...4
3. The view of love and marriage……………………………………………………….……….4
3.1 The view of love and marriage of Lin Daiyu…………………………………………….……4
3.2 The view of love and marriage of Elizabeth…………………………………………………..5
4. The similarities and the differences of the two heroines ……………………………………..5
4.1 The similarities of the two heroines……………………………………………………………6
4.2. The differences of the two heroines……………………………………………………………6
5. The exploration of the two endings …………………………………………………..………..7
6. The inspirations to the women ……………………………………………………….………..8
7. Conclusion ……………………………………………………………………………..………9
Bibliography

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从女性主义角度对比《红楼梦》中林黛玉与《傲慢与偏见》中伊莉莎白的婚姻观

中文摘要

美好的爱情和婚姻是每个人一生所追求的。不论古今中外，爱情和婚姻一直都被是世人津津乐道的话题，但是在追求情爱的路上，很多的人的情爱之路却是充满了挫折和荆棘。但是却也有很多不畏艰险去追求的人，比如《红楼梦》中的林黛玉和《傲慢与偏见》中的伊丽莎白，她们都是世界文学史上两个不朽的人物形象。她们都有着强烈的女性意识，对爱情和婚姻有自己的主张，敢于追求自己的真爱和打破当时世俗的眼光，坚持自己的初衷。生活中自尊自爱，具有永恒的艺术魅力。通过对她们女性意识，婚姻爱情观的分析，为现代人婚姻爱情以及生活提供一些启示。

关键词：女性主义 ，爱情观， 婚姻观 ，林黛玉， 伊丽莎白

Comparing the Marriage view of Lin Daiyu in the Story of the Stone with Elizabeth in Pride and prejudice from the Perspective of Feminism

Abstract

The beautiful love and marriage are the pursuit of everybody for their lives, no matter he or she is the ancient or modern person, abroad or home. Love and marriage are the topics that the people like to talk about. But there are many difficulties on the way of love.
Such as Lin Daiyu in The Story of the Stone and Elizabeth in Pride and Prejudice .They are the two immortal characters in the history of the world literature. They have the strong feminist consciousness. They have the idea about their love and marriage. They dare to pursuit their true love and break the secular vision, insist on their original intention. They are self-esteem and have the eternal artistic charm. By analyzing their female consciousness, love and marriage concept, we can get some inspiration for the modern marriage of love and life.

Key words：feminist; the view of love; the view of marriage; Lin Daiyu; Elizabeth

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Graduation Paper of Undergraduate, Bijie University

Comparing the Marriage view of Lin Daiyu in the Story of the Stone with Elizabeth in Pride and prejudice from the Perspective of Feminism
1. Introduction
Beautiful Love and marriage are the pursuit of everybody, no matter who he is. The pure love and happy marriage are the dreams that everyone hopes he or she can achieve. Even in the old times, for example: Lin Daiyu and Elizabeth, the two women in different ages and countries, but their hearts are the same, they chase the love and marriage that they want.
1.1 Introduction of the background
Nowadays, people are materialistic and hedonistic. The worship of money is prevalent, so many women are confused about their love and marriage, and they just chase the money blindly without the real life goal. So, how to treat the love and marriage with the right attitude is an important problem. As a girl student in 21century, we should have our clear goal of love and marriage .So the research from the perspective of feminism is a good choice. Since feminism was formed in 1960s, it has become one of the most influential trends in literary field. Female literature is also known as women’s literature. There are three kinds of researches about it: The first one is to research the literature which was created by female writers .The second one is to research the literature of female’s life .The third one is to research the literature of showing the feminist consciousness. Then, Lin Daiyu in The Story of the Stone and Elizabeth in the Pride and Prejudice are the two representatives of feminism.
1.2 Introduction of The Story of the Stone
The Story of the Stone is created by the Qing Dynasty writer Cao Xueqing. It is the most classical literature of the Chinese classical novel, and it is the peak and summary of the development of Chinese classical novel. In the great novel, the writer shapes countless fresh figures for us such as the feudal ethics orthodox character, Jia Zheng.
Wang Xifeng is pungent and strong. You Sanjie is staunch and unyielding, but Lin Daiyu is the most fresh figure with female consciousness.
1.3 Introduction of the Pride and Prejudice
Pride and Prejudice is written by 18th century British writer, Jane Austen. Since the work has been written, it has been loved by the people of the world. In the novel, the writer shapes a lot of figures such as the gentle Bingley, the arrogant Darcy, the vulgar and ignorance Lydia and the beautiful, kind-hearted Jane, but the most clever, brave and impressive is Elizabeth.
Lin Daiyu and Elizabeth are the two characters of the two different writers in two countries in 18th Century, but they are all shining light of feminism. They bold the most for their love, and the right to pursuit the most for women’s love bravely.
2. Feminist
Feminism is the idea of women who observe and exam the events. It is the union which is based on the political interests of anti-patriarchal. It is the summary of the women's way of thinking and behavior of a special political goal.
The famous French revolutionaries Olympe de Gouges, published the Feminism Proclamation in 1797. It pointed out that all male and female citizens are equal before the law. This is the first declaration of female rights in human’s history .Although feminist has different genres; its core value ​​is the same. Namely to protest the society of real father’s enslavement of women, to stress that women should have equal rights and status as men, and to claim that women should not be attached to the male community. On the contrary, woman should have the value of existing by showing the best state, and be against the unfairness of patriarchal society toe establish and improve women’s social position. We can explain Elizabeth and Lin Daiyu with feminism. They are in different countries with different cultural background, which makes the two female characters more impressive.
2.1 Introduce the feminist of Lin Daiyu
Lin Daiyu looks indifferent pride and she is weak, disagreeable, and likes crying, but there is a rebellious heart under her weak body, a heart of pursuit for the freedom of women.
The feminist of Lin Daiyu is shown in the following aspects. First, she has the pursuit of human dignity. Lin Daiyu was born in the official's family, but her parents died when she was young. She is lonely, so she must depend on others to live .But this life does not kill off her self-esteem (Yuan, 2003; 359-360). Oppositely, this made ​​her has a stronger protection awareness of self-esteem .Burying the Flowers has a high position in The Story of the Stone. From the poem, we can explore a voice from the heart. In the poem, she speaks for herself as fallen flowers, which also symbolizes the women at that time. And that can not grasp their own destiny. She sends a shout of who pity? (Cao,2007：83). In the big Jia family, nobody really cares her except Jia Baoyu . Lin Daiyu’ s grandmother loves her ,but when she may affect the Jias’ profits ,her grandmother satisfies her happiness without any hesitation .Living in such a miserable life，Lin Daiyu insists her mind and thoughts ,she does not want to lose herself , unwilling to yield. She desires to control her own destiny .The strong dignity is the showing of feminism of women.
Second, Lin Daiyu’s female consciousness is also reflected in her contempt of feudal orthodoxy. She ignores the feudal ethics .She likes reading. At the same time, she is talented, and she likes showing her talent before people (Zhou, 2004; 394).She loves Jia Baoyu ,but she never asks him to be an officer ,to be famous .Her poem also shows her contempt of feudal orthodoxy. She denies Xi Shi, and says that Xi Shi is just a kind of political tool , the victim of political struggle. Besides, she praises Hong Fu. Actually, she hopes she can be a woman as Hong Fu because she wants to be a woman who can decide her own life bravely and achieve the value and dreams of life.
At last, Lin Daiyu’s feminism shows her new view of love. I must be a ceiba by your side ,as a tree standing with you (Shu,2000;5).Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu’s love, reflects equality, which is baste on the concept of love in the soul .She dares to express her will and love ,and she requires Jia Baoyu should be single-minded, and hopes he can not forget the little sister when he meets the old sister (Cao,2007：215).） Lin Daiyu’s view of love is close to the love of the standard soul, to the love in addition to the considerable beauty and talent, to fit in both men and women of the interest-based(He,1999：156)concept of love, it is still not out of date today.
2.2 Introduction of the feminist of Elizabeth
Their feminism shows rebellion and struggle of the tradition and the pursuit of free view of equal marriage. Elizabeth has a strong consciousness of resistance and mind. She ignores the repression of the old ethics, bolds to defend her freedom of movement courageously. She leaves a deep impression to people. In order to visit her sick sister, she can walk 3 miles of muddy -path alone, and appear in the upper class with bad looking, but she never feels ashamed .Her crazy behavior makes her more lovely and beautiful. When Miss Catherine scolds all her sisters making social networking, she says “ but it could be hard on younger sisters not to have their amusement because the elder is not still married, it would hardly encourage sisterly affection”.（Austen, 2011:198） When Lady Catherine is trying to stop， she and Darcy’s love humiliate her. Elizabeth does not flatter those in authority, but she launches a fight. She says if I have, I shall be the last person to confess it , only this ;that if he is so ,you can have no reason to suppose he will make a offer to me , in marrying your nephew ,I should not consider myself as quitting that sphere , he is a gentleman ;I am a gentleman’s daughter ;so far we are equal . And I certainly never shall give it; I am not to be intimidated into anything so wholly unreasonable. (Austen，2011:407) She refuses to be a woman just like a vase. She wants to be a woman with emotion and feeling.
3. The view of their love and marriage
Lin Daiyu and Elizabeth are in different ages and countries, but treat love and marriage; they have their own thoughts and idea. to love and marriage ,they have some similarities ,but also have some differences.
3.1 The view of love and marriage of Lin Daiyu
Lin Daiyu’s view of love and marriage is strong and pure, and it is across time. For love, she hopes her mate can be single-minded all the time. In the feudal society, man can have many wives. This idea is very precious. He has gone beyond the shackles of the times. Besides, she requires that man must be single-minded, and she emphasizes the equality of the sexes neglecting the materials or the spirit .She pursuits the equal and free love and marriage. All the time .even though she fails under the powerful feudal social thought, she provides her pursuit with her life .Maybe it is pity, but she does not regret forever .Because she insists on one thing that she wants to do with her life at last .She is different from the other girls who just follow the society .The girls are forgotten by the readers very quickly, but Lin Daiyu will be in the readers’ hearts forever.
3.2 The view of love and marriage of Elizabeth
Elizabeth's view of marriage is also worthy of our study. On the relations between the two sexes, she hopes she can get the respect of men .She refuses the marriage without love, she pursuits the free and equal love and marriage. Simone de Beauvoir talked about in The Second Sex: Happiness is a feeling, including material and spirit. (19