UNIT4MAKINGAGOODIMPRESSION.pptx

单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,*,*,Unit 4 Making a Good Impression,network favorite,1/21,positive,attentive,freindly,2/21,negative,3/21,How to make a good impression？,I.Take the initiatve to say hello to each other 一 主动向对方打招呼,II.Show the name slightly 二 报姓名时略加说明,III.pay attention to your facial expression 三 注意自己表情,IV.Identify with each others common ground 四 找出双方共同点,V.Understand each others interests,hobbies 五 了解对方兴趣、兴趣,VI.Guide each other about things proud 六 引导对方谈得意之事,VII.Find small changes in a timely manner 七 适时指出对方小改变,VIII.Sitting straight 八 挺直坐姿,IX.Properly“echo”each other 九 恰如其分“附和”对方,X.Dont overlook ways to break up 十 不要忽略分手方式,4/21,steps,2.Possible difficult words and,expressions,3.Listening In,4.Speaking Out,1.Lead-in activities,5/21,1.1,Lead-in activities,In your opinion,h,ow to make a good impression at,the,first sight?,6/21,1.Dress yourself better and comfortable,First of all,you should dress,clean and tidy,.Good appearance is vital in any public meetings.People will first catch a short glimpse of your appearance,and remember it firmly.That is called the first effect or primacy effect(首因效应)。After finding that you are a neat guy,they will then be glad to talk to you.,First effect(首因效应),：人际交往中，人们首次留给他人印象比较牢靠、鲜明、深刻，对人认知过程有非常主要先入为主作用。,7/21,2.Have confidence in yourself.,To make a good impression,we have to have deep confidence in ourselves.If you are,calm and confident,the other person will feel more at ease and this makes a solid foundation of a good first impression.Factors of showing confidence,Speaking,(,speed and emotion,),Dressing(,tidy,and comfotable),Facial expression,（smil,e,looking into others eyes),Body language(,head up,back straight),8/21,1.2,Possible difficult words and expressions,9/21,1.2.1,T,en short conversations,so long as,:只要，假如；既然，因为,They are tolerable so long as tomorrow is better.,只要明天会更加好，这一切就都能够忍受。,mature:,adj.full-grown,adult,ripe（人、树木、鸟或动物）成熟;仔细考虑过;到期（应该支付）;成年人;,反义词：immature,vi.成熟，长成;（票据等）到期;,vt.使成熟;使长成;慎重确定（计划等）;,Hopefully after three years at university I will have matured.,希望3年大学生活之后我能变成熟。,10/21,Aggressive:,angry,and behaving in a threatening way;ready to attack 好斗；挑衅,；富于攻击,11/21,promote:,vt.促进，推进;提升，助长;促销;使（学生）升级;,There is huge social pressure to promote women.,有巨大社会压力要求提拔女性。,to be promoted,:晋升，被提拔,12/21,stay positive,:保持主动态度；保持乐观,Im choosing to stay positive today.,当然，我今天选择让自己保持主动乐观。,13/21,Take an instant liking to sb.一见钟情,love sb.at the first sight,awful,:adj.糟糕;可怕;非常;极坏;,adv.非常，极;,Suddenly,in the moonlight,I saw the monsters awful face looking at me.,突然，在月光下我看见那个怪物恐怖脸正看着我。,14/21,1.3 Listening-in,1.Look at the answers quickly and guess whats the main idea of each conversation,including where，when,who,what and how.,2.Listen to the CD,find the right answer,and explain the sentences if necessary.,15/21,Fill ones needs:meet ones needs,:满足某人需要,Be in good shape,:be in a good condition:处于良好状态,1.2.,2 A passage,16/21,About the movie,A Beautiful Mind,I am only here because of you,you are the only reason I am,you are all the,reason.,John Nash,(when accepting the Nobel Prize),17/21,John Nash,The character of the movie is based on,John,Nash,a mathematician in USA,created theories in math.He had many questions in his life,and he faced challenges of many different kinds.After years of hardship,he discovered thatlove is the source of lifes answers,.His wife,Alicia,gave him that love,and he appreciated it deeply.,18/21,1.4 Comment on,A Beautiful Mind:,无欲则刚,John Nash，一个不折不扣伟大天才，一个不折不扣伟大疯子。,1947年，他来到普林斯顿大学，他想要成为英雄，用数字和逻辑救赎世人，这野心如此自私，又如此伟大，就象他博弈论，在考虑到个人最大利益基础上能给予团体最大利益。这是他唯一想，也是他一直执着于做。,只是，John没有想到，这会沉重到让自己敏感心灵无力负担。于是，在真实世界中无处伸展欲望只能在幻想世界里肆意张扬，他成了自己幻想中英雄。他成了疯子。,19/21,1.4 Comment on,A Beautiful Mind:,无欲则刚,痛苦治疗之后，他欲望终于不再是拯救世界，而是让这个他曾经尽力梦想要拯救世界来重新接纳他，重新给他机会去研究他心爱数学。这个过程象一场没有些人能够看到战争，他独自反抗着心里欲望和整个世界嘲弄眼神。让人欣慰是，他碰到了无条件支持他家人和朋友。他回到了普林斯顿。昔日同学对手，此时老朋友，相隔多年两盘围棋，时光流逝中，总是有些什么，在沉痛之外，有温暖余光，照耀他一路艰辛。,假如故事在John精神分裂时候结束，那么这会是一个寓言，用教诲口气告诉世人，欲望无边，即使那念头堂皇无私，也会堕入深渊。可是John之所以伟大，就在于他在沉溺之后，选择无视自己欲望，或者说，他学会了控制自己欲望。,于是，这个故事便成了一个传奇,，他最终以一个疯子姿态站在了常人无法企及高度上。他成了一个需要被仰视伟大人。人与欲望之间，是一场没有硝烟永不会结束战争，John胜在他坚持着从不退却。,20/21,1.4 Speaking out,21/21,