话题一人际关系.doc

话题一、人际关系
人际关系指人与人之间的交往与友谊，与家人、朋友、邻居、亲戚或他人之间的情感交流或沟通，如师生关系、父子关系、同学之间的友情等；对他人的感谢、感恩、宽容、道歉、赞扬、微笑等，请求他人同意和帮助、解决问题、处理矛盾冲突、和解，等等。

☆ 必备词句
(1)learn from each other 互相学习
(2)promote the friendship 增进友谊
(3)improve the relationship改善关系
(4)show love and concern for sb. 爱护和关心某人
(5)Good listening can really enable us to get closer to each other. 善于倾听使我们彼此走得更近。
(6)A good relationship between teachers and students is of great importance for our studies.良好的师生关系对我们的学习很重要。
(7)To build a good relationship, we should trust in each other. 要建立良好的关系，我们应该彼此信任。
(8)Only in this way can we enjoy an equal relationship. 只有这样我们才能享有平等的关系。
(9)They find it easy to communicate with their teachers. 他们发觉很容易和老师沟通。
(10)With their help, I tried my best to study hard and succeeded in entering a key university. 在他们的帮助下，我努力学习，成功地被一所重点大学录取。
(11)We should value this harmonious relationship between teachers and students. 我们应该珍惜师生之间这种和谐的关系。
(12)With the encouragement and support of my father, I have overcome many difficulties in our life. 在父亲的鼓励和支持下，我克服了生活中的许多困难。
☆ 专题练析
1：给刚从外地转来的新同学的一封信
假设你是新华中学的学生李华，班里从外地转来一名同学李明，他一时无法融入到新的班集体中，感到很苦恼。
［写作内容］请根据下列要点用英语给他写封信：
（1）帮他分析原因：害羞，怕同学取笑。
（2）给他提出建议：学习普通话，跟同学交流意见。
（3）陈述你帮助他的具体打算。
Dear Li Ming，
      I’m sorry to know that you feel distressed at your new class.  One of the reasons, I believe, is that you might be too shy to talk confidently with your classmates and maybe you are afraid that your classmates will make fun of your accent.
     I am sure, with your effort, you can manage to overcome these difficulties. In my opinion， learning to speak Putonghua and comparing notes with your classmates frequently are good ways for you to make new friends.
In our spare time， I’ll invite you to play basketball or go to some parties. Also， I’d like to introduce my good friends to you.
      I hope you can adapt to the new school life as soon as possible.
       Best regards，
 Li Hua
2：父母与子女之间如何建立良好关系
以约120个词就“父母与子女的良好关系”发表你的看法，包括如下要点：
(1)父母与子女关系良好的重要性；
(2)你希望与你的父母之间的关系是怎样的；
(3)如何才能建立这种关系？
     An ideal relationship between parents and children is very important for our growth. Parents always show love and concern for us. They are our good listeners， advisers and supporters. With their help， we can overcome many difficulties in our life.
     In my opinion， the relationship between parents and children should be one filled with love， care and understanding， in which parents and children show respect for each other and exchange ideas freely. To build a relationship of this kind， parents should become friends of their children while children ought to place more trust in their parents and give voice to their feelings frankly.
      Only in this way can we enjoy a harmonious relationship between parents and children.(117 words)
3：描写老师或朋友帮你克服困难的一次经历
以约120词写一篇记叙文，回忆老师或朋友在你困难时候帮助你的一次经历，并包括如下要点：
(1) 叙述你遇到困难的一次真实或虚构的经历；
(2) 你的老师或朋友如何帮助你解决困难的？
(3) 你的老师或朋友对你产生了什么影响？你对老师或朋友的态度是什么？
     I had such an experience when I was in junior school. I was doing badly in maths at that time. However hard I tried， I just couldn’t catch up with others. I almost lost heart when we had a new maths teacher， Mr Hu. Now and then he talked with me， telling me the ways to learn maths and encouraging me to keep on trying.
Only then did I realize that I was not studying maths in a scientific way. With his help， I was doing a little better gradually. One year later， I made amazing progress. Now I am in a key senior high school and always one of the top students in my class. I am always grateful to Mr Hu.(123 words)

4.在高中，有时与同学会发生这样或那样的矛盾或冲突，这些问题给大家带来烦恼，甚至影响大家的学习。请你用英语写一篇120词左右的短文，分析一下产生矛盾或冲突的原因，并谈谈应如何正确地与同学相处。
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范文：Classmate conflicts among senior middle school students are often heard on campus over recent years. These conflicts make the excitement of campus life grow grey and have bad effects on both their living and learning.
Classmate conflicts often rise from daily tiny things such as space where to store books or notes. When personalities don’t mix, the specifics can tear classmates apart and sometimes even lead to serious conflicts. Besides, the fact that classmates hold different attitudes towards certain issues is another factor causing these conflicts.
Classmate conflicts are harmful and need to be settled. Though many people think that school discipline can soften the conflicts, I believe learning to be tolerant with each other can play a more constructive role because it teaches students flexibility and the art of compromise. Meanwhile, communication contributes to the solution to this problem since many of these conflicts result from misunderstanding.
5. 话题作文
母亲节来临之际，某国际网站发起“子女与父母的关系”的大讨论，许多的中外学生都纷纷发帖表达自己的观点。请你用英语写一篇120词的短帖，发表你的看法。内容包括：父母和子女的关系;父母在子女学习、生活、事业中的作用；父母在社会上的地位；子女应如何对待和回报自己的父母。
Parents should always be remembered for providing us not only with love and support when we were young but also with help and guide when we grew up and began to work..
Parents are always the best teachers in our study both at our lessons and in our life. They help us to tell good from bad and make greater progress in every field. In addition, they are our best friends in our daily life. They are willing to help us build up our own family and business without asking for anything in return.
Therefore, parents are the greatest people in the world. They should be loved and respected in every family. In my opinion, we should do whatever we can to support and take care of them, especially when they are too old to earn their living. Only in this way can we build more harmonious families and live happily together with our parents.
6.假设你是李华，你们学校上周对全体学生进行了一次关于“网络交友”的调查、请根据下表的内容结合book1unit1的词汇和句型写一篇100词左右的英语文章。
调查内容
学生对网络交友的看法
调查结果
45%的学生赞成
55%的学生反对
原因
1. 和网友相处更容易；
2. 可参加网友组织的有趣的活动
1. 浪费时间，影响学习；
2. 不能当面交流，可能会上当受骗。
个人看法
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Last week,our school carried out a survey on students’ opinions about making friends online. Accoring to the findings, 55%of the students disagree wtith it. They think chatting online takes up a lot of time,while will definetly have a bad effect on study. Besides, students may be cheated online without face-to face communication. However, the rest hold a different view. They find it easier to get along with their net friends. In addition, they can join in a lot of interesting activities that are held by their net friends. In my opion, students can make friends online., but the safety problem cannot be ignored.

7. 作为一名中学生，和老师建立良好的师生关系是必要的。请你围绕下面的两个问题写一篇英语短文，谈谈自己的看法。 ．
1．你认为良好的师生关系应该是怎样的?
2．如何才能建立这种关系?
注意：
1．可以使用一些具体的实例支持你的论点；
2．词数100―120左右，开头已为你写好，不计人总词数。
As a middle school student，it is necessary to build a good relationship with our teachers
范文：As a high school student, it is necessary to build a good relationship with our teacher, for it is the teacher who show love and concern for us students in study and life and they are good listeners. We students can always seek support and advice from them, from which we can benefit and learn a lot.
In this case, an ideal relationship between teachers and students is very important. In my opinion , this relationship should be one filled with love, care understanding, and respect, so they can exchange ideas freely. To bulid a relationship of this kind, teachers should become friends of students while students ought to trust their teachers and give voice to their feeling frankly . Only by joint efforts can we enjoy a warm relationship between teachers and students.