《家》读后感：束缚与反抗.docx

《家》读后感：束缚与反抗
陈子灵
巴金先生的《家》，是我一直想读却又未曾去读的，记得九年级有一篇文章叫做《家的序和跋》。我们的语文老师在学习到这篇文章时，便将《家》的大致情节讲给了我们听，她说的是那样吸引人，不禁让我立刻捧起这本书来读。现在，暑假到了，我终于是有时间去读这本书了。
这本书讲的是一个封建大家庭中的各种事。有快乐的，悲伤的，令人痛苦的和不合常理的。各种令人愤怒的事件的起因都是这个家庭中很多成员的腐朽落后。特别是由于高家祖父的一切所作所为和太太们的煽风点火。读了这本书我才明白原来当年的封建礼教是那样可怕，以至于把人逼向死地。其实高觉新的内心并不坏，只是他不敢反抗家里长辈的命令，可以说亲手害死了自己所爱的人和自己的妻子。即便后来他有所悔改，但事情都已过去了，后悔也来不及。
其实我所一直认为的家是可爱的，温馨的，而不是像书本中描写的那样，束缚、顺从、压迫，那简直是太可怕了。书中从头至尾唯一一个具有先进的思想并为之付出行动的人，当然，高觉民也是如此，但那是后来的，是他在快要失去最亲的人的情况下。我认为既然是要反抗，就一定要是一开始，而不是非等到被逼无奈的境地后，再去反抗，到那时，即使为时不晚，但给自己、别人不免付出很多痛苦。那么就来谈谈高觉新好了。
高觉新作为思想进步，但行为保守一类的代表，他的坎坷经历常使人感到心寒。首先，他因顺从而被迫不能与自己亲爱的人结婚，这导致两人后来都痛苦不堪，所以导致后来的他的爱人因痛苦不堪加疾病缠身而最终去世。再到后来，又因为老祖宗的死，他听从家里各种太太的话不让自己的妻子在家中生产，最终导致妻子生下孩子便去世了。这是给他带来的多么大的打击啊。也是从这以后，他开始反抗了。其实高觉新的人物设定很巧妙，他既是拥有先进思想的后一辈，又是代表封建势力的老一辈，他是不敢与家中的各位姨太，太太还有叔叔们作斗争的，因为他承担的是一个一家之主的责任，所以他所承受的已经够多了，这个二十多岁的青年，已经尽了他的所能了，但这也并不意味着我们不怪他，因为这个不敢忤逆大人的他，不知伤害了多少人。高觉新的事迹让我们意识到我们有时需要放开自己，虽不说与家人唱反调，但也要忠于自己。
高觉民是一个进步人物，但他的进步还不够明显。他相对于高觉新，在行为上，思想上有了很大的进步，但有时，他也还是不能作出令人满意的打算。他是一心一意的爱着琴，只是在有关自身利益的情况下，才站出来反抗，太不正义了。但是，转念一想，难道人不应该为了自己，为了自己所爱的人而去争取吗。我们也许又应该原谅他。可是我印象中的高觉民却有些懦弱，有事，面对弟弟高觉慧的责骂及嗔怪，总选择沉默，面对家中大人的建议，也选择沉默，当自己要被逼成亲时，选择的依然是去找三弟商量，完全没有自己的主见，像是个无脑之人。其实也许应该赞扬他，要不是因为他的坚持，也许高老太爷也不会那么大发慈悲的放过他。高觉民让我们了解到自己是要为自己心爱的人所付出的，因此要敢于想家人或其他的人说出自己的想法，学会反抗，而不是整天郁郁寡欢，像个被囚禁的犯人。
高觉慧在书中就显得较为厉害了，从头到尾他都在不服不满，都在反抗。他反抗祖父，反抗大哥，反抗叔叔婶婶，他的生活从来就只有反抗。哦，还有短时间内，鸣凤带给他的爱情的欢乐。觉慧他是一个永远都跟得上进步思潮的人，不光是在思想上，更是在行动上，我个人认为他与他的大哥，二哥相比，进步的不止是一点点。他会在祖父不允许他出门时，悄悄地跑出门，会在全家人都同自己作对时，也能冷着脸不理，在二哥觉民碰到难题时，勇敢的帮他解决，即便他也曾嘲笑过他。而这么要强的他竟然也有过惨痛的一段经历，那就是鸣凤的死，这痛苦对于觉慧来说是巨大而又短暂的。之所以说巨大，是因为他曾深爱着这个少女，并且是因为自己的不注意而没能帮助这个少女而使他被迫跳湖致死。而短暂，便是因为在当时的环境下，一个人的死，即便是自己爱的人，那也没有什么，那是只够人们伤心一段时间的。所以觉慧很快就投入到工作中去了。高觉慧的故事告诉我们，反抗比起嘴上说说更为重要，但是我们又是决不能将工作为轴心而不去顾自己所爱的人了，两头兼顾，才算得上精明了。
《家》是一篇震撼人心巨著，里面只是围绕一个点来展开进行讨论，但是却让人觉得自己身处其中，貌似任何一个人都与自己有关，他们痛苦，自己也感到痛苦；他们快乐，自己也感到快乐。所以这本书是由内而外地击垮了我，和众多像我一样的读者。
何其庆幸，读到这本书。
第二篇：《苔丝》读后感--反抗与软弱rebellionandcowardice
--------ontessofthed’urbervilles
thomashardy，novelistandpoet，isoneoftherepresentativesofenglishcriticalrealismattheturnofthe19thcentury.andtessofthed’urbervillesisoneofhismostsuccessfulnovels.hardycannotsolelybelabeledasavictoriannovelist，norcanheonlybecategorizedasamoderist.asatraditionalwriter，hardywasdeterminedtoexplodetheconventionsofnineteenth-centuryliteratureandbuiltanewkindofnovelinitsplace.inmanyrespects，hardywastrappedinthemiddlegroundbetweenthenineteenthandtwentiethcenturies，betweenvictoriansensibilitiesandmoremodernones，andbetweentraditionandinnovation.1.briefintroductiontessofthed’urbervilleswaspublishedom1891.itisgenerallyregardedashardy’stragicmasterpiece，andcertainlyitishismostambitioustragicnovel.asapure，loyal，intelligent，strikinglyattractiveyoungwoman，tessisthecentralcharacterofthenovel.atthebeginingofthisstory，tesslivedinasmallvillagepeacefully.tess’sfatherwasapoorcountrysidehawker，whowaslazyandconstantlyexcessivedrinking.tess’smotherwasadairymaid，whosemindwasverysimple.theywerepitifulcreatureswhowerealwaysfeelingafterthevanity.justassuchterribleparentsbecamethesetteroftess’stragedy.incidently，tess’sfatherdiscoveredalinktothenobleofthed’urbervilled.therefore，tesswassenttoworkatthed’urbervillesmansion.andthen，tesswasseducedbyaso-calledgentleman----alec.unfortunatelly，heridealscannotpreventherfromslidingfurtherandfurtherintomisfortuneaftershebecomespregnant.forcedbythegossipsandthechurch’sblame，tessthoughtshedeservednothinggood.inordertogetridofthepast，shedecidedtogotoadistantdiaryfarmbutstillthoughtshewasofguilty.maybegoddidn’tapproveofthis，becausethelordgavehersomeoneshelovedwithherwholeheart----angelchare.theylovedeachotherdeeply.somehow，tessagreedtomarryangel.soonaftertheirweddingangelconfessedthecrimehecommittedtoawomanlongtimeagoandaskedfortess’sforgiveness.tesswasnotatallangryandforgaveangelatonce;infactshewasratherhappyandexcitedforshealsohadthingstoconfess.shesatandtoldherpasttoangel，andhopingtobeforgiven.butshewaswrongandangeldidn’tlistentoherexplanationatall.
withoutangel’slove，nothingmeantanythingtoher.alecfoundtessagainandforcedhertostaywithhim.atlast，tesscouldn’tbearitandkilledalec.everythingwaschanged.tesswasarrestedforhermurdereventually.andthisstorywasendedwiththedeathoftess.2.tess’srebellion
tessisarebelledgirl.firstofall，sheneveryeildedtopressurefromthesociety.thecontestbetweencorruptionandinnocencetakesplacenotonlyinafield，butalsointhehuman’sheart.intess’slife，therearetwomen----alecandangel.bothofthemhaveagreatinflunencetochangeherfate.tessisapuregirltangleduptothetragedywebwhichisdelineatedbytheimposedfate.thatistoounfairtoacceptbyanyone.buttessnevergivesup.
alecisadevilyoungmanwhodoeseverythinghecantoseducetesswhensheworksforhisfamily.andhedoesnottrytohidehisevil.atthebeginingofthisbook，hepromisestoprovideforthefamilythatbringstessto“sell”herselftohim.itisalecwhonotonlyruinstess’svirginity，butalsodestroysherhappylife.alecisnotonlysensual，butalsoarrogantandphysicallystrong.hebelievesthatwinningawomanrequiresforce，notaffectionandlove.disregardingtess’srevolution，alecconsiderswomenascarnalobjectsratherthanasequalhuman’sworthyofaffection.then，hebelievesheisdifferentfromtheancestors，sincehehaspoweroverherwhiletheydonotbutinfactheisjustlikethem，usinghispowerlikeagodalthoughhisisquitehollow.hepromisesemptyadvantagestoher，likethewealthsheeventuallyreceivesfromhim，thatcanneverbemoreimportantthanlove.facingalec’sforce，tesstrysherbesttorebelhim.and，aftertheseducing，tessdecidedtoleavealecandworkforadistantdiaryfarm.sheusesheractiontoproveherrebelliontotheworld.secondly，tesskillsalecatlast.thisthingshowsherrebellionagain.whentessrefusestomarryalecdespitethesocialadvantagethematchwouldgiveher，andrefuseshisoffersofhelpbecauseshedoesnotsincerelylovehim，weseeherasmorethananunwittingvictim：herintegrityandcouragemakeherheroic.thus，inthelatterpart，asanglereturnswithrenewedloyaltyandlovefortess，itbecomesapparentthatalec’strickhasconsiderablybrokendowntess’sloyaltytoangle.tornapart，hershameandgriefcauseherviolentsidetoexplode;tessnowkillsherloverinamurderousrageoutofloveforherhusband.whetherintentionalornot，tesshasfulfilledangle’sproclamationthattheycannotbetogetheraslongasalecisalive.hernewfoundactivitymaynotsaveher;indeed，herpunishmentforthemurder，presumablydeathbyhanging，willsnapherneckjustlikeshesnapsthenecksofthosepheasants.nevertheless，itmaybepreferabletoherearlierpassivity，providingherwithanoblerwaytofaceherfate.inaword，alecoftherepresentativesofthebourgeoisie，hehasabourgeoisstateapparatus，law，andethics，asabackup.wealthcanrelyonthelawandnoteasilybulliedandontheplayingtess.tessandhiscontradictions，itcanalsobesaidthattheworkersareoppressedandthespecificperformanceoftheentirecapitalistsocialcontradictions.tessbeginningofhisattitudeisveryclear，shepubliclydeclareshisobnoxious.later，atafarm，sheputsupastruggletohim.finally，shecurseshimtoruinherlife.sheignoresthebourgeoislegalityandmorality，onthefeelingsofgreatangertokillhim.herreactionisaheavyattacktothedarksociety.3.tess’scowardicetesshasadefinitelyrebeledcharactor.atthesametime，sheiscoward.thischaractorisalsoshowedontwoaspects.first，herloveforangel.ingreatcontracttoalec，angelwinstess’sheartbysweetwordsandkindness.infact，heisamorecomplicatedperson.asatypicalnineteenthcenturyprogressiverepresentative，angelrejectsthevalueshandedtohim，andsetsoffinsearchofhisown.hisdisdainfortraditionwhichisanindependentspiritcontributestohisauraofcharismaandgeneralattractiveness.hethinksofthisatthetimeofthebritishbourgeoisiehumanitarianandhistoricalconditions，bourgeoisruleinaverybrutal，verytragiclifeofthepeasantclass，acertainprogressismeaningless.however，itmustbepointedoutisthathehasnotreallyjumpoutofhisareaagainsttheoldmoralvalues，hehasnotreallydespisedfromtheclassprejudices.hedecidestostandforthebourgeoisideologyandhisinevitabledeparturefromtheselfishinterests.althoughhegoestothefarmerstolearnfarmingtechniques，buthisrealpurposeistothefuture.althoughheclaimstobeindependentjudgmentopinion，oncethethingisaverycrucialstage，heisstillupholdingthedecadentbourgeoissocialcustomsandmoralhypocrisy.
angellovestessbecausehethinksthatsheissweetandpure.tess’sdenialofhimshowssheisconcernedaboutherpast.toangel，herdenialseemstosignifythattessisevenmorevirtuousthanhethinksof.somehowtessagreestomarryhim.sheissoafraidtoloseherhusbandthatmakesherliferestlessallthetime.lateron，whensheknowsasimilarerrorinangel’spast“eight-andfortyhours”dissipationwithastrangerinlondon，shesecurelymakesherconfessionandhopestogetangle’sforgiveness.tesshasthoughtalthoughangeldidn’tfindtheletterunderthecarpethecanforgiveherandthentheywillliveahappylifetogether.butangel，whoproveshimselfmorejudgmentalandinflexiblethanhisparent，isblindbyhisfailuretoaccepttessforwhoshereallyis.hetakestess’stransgressionasapersonalattackonhim，whichmakeshimunabletoseeherclearly.theidealized，purevisionoftessisdestroyed.angelhasthesamepastastess’s，buthecannotforgivetessastessforgiveshim.henolongerseesthewomanheoncehasseenandhasmarriedonlyhoursago.forhim，theloverwho’sbelovedhasbeentransformedinhismindfromtheembodimentofpurityintothetarnishedrealityofafallenwoman.second，hersecondstaywithalecalsopresentshercowardice.whileenduringtheabandedlife，astessstruggleswithalec’stemptation，herneedforangel，becomesmoreandmoredesparate.ifangelweretoreturntoheranddohisdutyasherhusband，herproblemswouldgreatlydiminish.shewritestoangelandpleadsthathenotjudgesheronherirretrievablepast.tess’ssituationthusmakesherveryvulnerabletoalec’spersuasions.sheisobviouslyheartbrokenandneedstobelovedmorethanever.sheisalsodistraughtbyherfamily’sever-worseningfinancialsituation.alec’sreasoningseemsmorevalidtotessthanithasinthepast.inaway，tessandalecaresimilarinthattheyhavebothfallenandaskforforgivenessfortheirindiscretions.afteralongwaitforangel’sreply，butnothing，tessbeginstorealizethatalecmaybeheronlyhope.shegivesupallhopesandbecomesalec’smistressforthesakeofherfamily.
tess’loveisnotgiventhespiritoftranscendenceandphysicalbeauty，butwiththelossofself-emaciatedblindandmiserable，unrealistictoimaginethatthereisnohopewiththechessboard，andallareattributabletotheself-destinyofthefateandhelplessness.herlifeisnotworthwhiletoanattachmentthathermanandthisisaprofoundtragedy.whenshefeelstheopinionsofallthesacrificessoinsignificant，asallactsoflevity，finallydecidestoangrilyrebel.ofcourse，tessonceexpressedherplainnessangrilybythelastlettertoangelunderacompletelydisappointedcondition.4.conclusiontessofd’urbervillesisagreatwork.tessisoneofhardy’smostsympatheticprotagonists.sheisaslikeableasaliterarycharactorfoundinallofenglishliterature.readerscometounderstandherplightandheracceptanceoftheseeminglyinevitablethingsthathappentoher.notonceduringthenoveldoestessexhibitanytraitsthattakeawayfromhardy'sportrayalofherasagoodperson.asaresult，bytheendofthenovel，wewishforahappyendingfortessandangel，butweknowthatnotallstoriesendonapositivenote.nowadayswomen’ssituationshavebecomemuchbetter.somearebecauseofthechangeofsocietyandsomearebecauseofcivilization.justletthosepoorpainfulwomenliketessbejustamemory.
第三篇：自由与束缚自由与束缚
我十分渴望自由，就像鸟儿一样无忧无虑的生活。但我知道那是不可能的只是幻想罢了。像我这样的孩子永远得生活在束缚下。
我的烦恼有很多，三天时间也说不完。更多的烦恼来自于家庭，也就是父母带给我的烦恼。
在他们眼中我永远是一个长不大的小孩，这一点对于我来说并没有什么，但正因为这一点，我在他们面前得不到尊重，得不到一个孩子应有的尊重。
我的话他们好像永远也不进去，或者从一只耳朵进去再从另一只耳朵出去。从简简单单的小事就可而知。一次，妈妈拿水杯接水喝，但是饮水机却没水了。我对着她说：“水没了，再去换一桶吧。”谁知，她依然，把水杯放在饮水机下，按了下去，其结果可想而知。再如，前天我对爸爸说让他帮我往学生卡里充钱，可是好几天他都有时间，但都忘了，我只好自己去充。我不知道是我的话说不清楚还是父母没听懂或者是不想听，但我知道他们从来都不重视。
我的能力在父母面前不管有多好，总是那么的微不足道。我做什么事情他们都不放心。如擦个桌子，扫地，洗个衣服，在我干完之后，他们总要摇摇头，经常要再干一遍，要不然啊，他们会心慌的。渐渐地我不再喜欢跟父母说话，也不再帮助父母干活。我只是把自己分内的事干好，免得找来几句怨言。
我的自由也常常受到控制。晚上出去转转，和同学出去玩，去外面打打篮球，玩会电脑""这些事啊只有在特定的时间，特定的地点，特定的安全下才可以进行。而且十有八九是待在家里，不让出去。如果想偷偷溜出去。哼，那就只能用天网恢恢疏而不漏一句理解了。
我讨厌在家长的束缚下成长，但我也深刻的明白离开家长无疑是走向黑暗的深渊，无依无靠。就像是风筝本来在线的牵引下飞翔，但有一天当他追寻自由挣脱了线时他将会受尽分吹雨打，不知死活，或者垂向地面。
但如果风筝的线太重了，他依然会落下来，而且会摔得更惨。
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第四篇：《苔丝》读后感--反抗与软弱（范文模版）rebellionandcowardice
--------ontessofthed’urbervilles
thomashardy，novelistandpoet，isoneoftherepresentativesofenglishcriticalrealismattheturnofthe19thcentury.andtessofthed’urbervillesisoneofhismostsuccessfulnovels.hardycannotsolelybelabeledasavictoriannovelist，norcanheonlybecategorizedasamoderist.asatraditionalwriter，hardywasdeterminedtoexplodetheconventionsofnineteenth-centuryliteratureandbuiltanewkindofnovelinitsplace.inmanyrespects，hardywastrappedinthemiddlegroundbetweenthenineteenthandtwentiethcenturies，betweenvictoriansensibilitiesandmoremodernones，andbetweentraditionandinnovation.1.briefintroductiontessofthed’urbervilleswaspublishedom1891.itisgenerallyregardedashardy’stragicmasterpiece，andcertainlyitishismostambitioustragicnovel.asapure，loyal，intelligent，strikinglyattractiveyoungwoman，tessisthecentralcharacterofthenovel.atthebeginingofthisstory，tesslivedinasmallvillagepeacefully.tess’sfatherwasapoorcountrysidehawker，whowaslazyandconstantlyexcessivedrinking.tess’smotherwasadairymaid，whosemindwasverysimple.theywerepitifulcreatureswhowerealwaysfeelingafterthevanity.justassuchterribleparentsbecamethesetteroftess’stragedy.incidently，tess’sfatherdiscoveredalinktothenobleofthed’urbervilled.therefore，tesswassenttoworkatthed’urbervillesmansion.andthen，tesswasseducedbyaso-calledgentleman----alec.unfortunatelly，heridealscannotpreventherfromslidingfurtherandfurtherintomisfortuneaftershebecomespregnant.forcedbythegossipsandthechurch’sblame，tessthoughtshedeservednothinggood.inordertogetridofthepast，shedecidedtogotoadistantdiaryfarmbutstillthoughtshewasofguilty.maybegoddidn’tapproveofthis，becausethelordgavehersomeoneshelovedwithherwholeheart----angelchare.theylovedeachotherdeeply.somehow，tessagreedtomarryangel.soonaftertheirweddingangelconfessedthecrimehecommittedtoawomanlongtimeagoandaskedfortess’sforgiveness.tesswasnotatallangryandforgaveangelatonce;infactshewasratherhappyandexcitedforshealsohadthingstoconfess.shesatandtoldherpasttoangel，andhopingtobeforgiven.butshewaswrongandangeldidn’tlistentoherexplanationatall.
withoutangel’slove，nothingmeantanythingtoher.alecfoundtessagainandforcedhertostaywithhim.atlast，tesscouldn’tbearitandkilledalec.everythingwaschanged.tesswasarrestedforhermurdereventually.andthisstorywasendedwiththedeathoftess.2.tess’srebellion
tessisarebelledgirl.firstofall，sheneveryeildedtopressurefromthesociety.thecontestbetweencorruptionandinnocencetakesplacenotonlyinafield，butalsointhehuman’sheart.intess’slife，therearetwomen----alecandangel.bothofthemhaveagreatinflunencetochangeherfate.tessisapuregirltangleduptothetragedywebwhichisdelineatedbytheimposedfate.thatistoounfairtoacceptbyanyone.buttessnevergivesup.
alecisadevilyoungmanwhodoeseverythinghecantoseducetesswhensheworksforhisfamily.andhedoesnottrytohidehisevil.atthebeginingofthisbook，hepromisestoprovideforthefamilythatbringstessto“sell”herselftohim.itisalecwhonotonlyruinstess’svirginity，butalsodestroysherhappylife.alecisnotonlysensual，butalsoarrogantandphysicallystrong.hebelievesthatwinningawomanrequiresforce，notaffectionandlove.disregardingtess’srevolution，alecconsiderswomenascarnalobjectsratherthanasequalhuman’sworthyof