1、Iloveyounotbecauseofwhoyouare,butbecauseofwhoIamwhenIamwithyou.Howareyoufeelingnowwhenyouseethesepictures?angryexcitedshockedunbearablehappyridiculousamazingromanticembarrassedagreeablebeatific(祝福的)unbelievableintheworldhomosexuality(同性恋)Currentsituation(现状)Afilmyes or no andloveinweiboReasonsandpsy
2、chologicalLawsindifferentcountriesPeoplesattitudeWhatshouldwedo?contentsWhatshomosexuality?Homosexualityisromanticorsexualattractionorbehavioramongmembersofthesame-sex,occasionallyorasanenduringdisposition.Accordingtothesurvey,thegaypopulationtheproportionofthepopulationis5%.Yes.Thatistosayeveryoneh
3、undredpersonhas5personisgay.HomosexualityindifferentculturesCallingforHomosexualityMale:gayqueer断背短袖Female:lesbianles拉拉百合Whysomepeoplewillbehomosexuality?Thecauseofhomosexualityisduetocongenitalfactorsandacquireddisposition.Congenitalfactorsreferstophysicalfactors,suchasgeneticgene,hormonelevel,thei
4、nfluenceofthebrainstructure,etc.Theacquireddispositionisreferstothepsychologicalfactorsandsocialfactors,suchaschildhoodenvironment,adolescentexperiencesandso-calledsituationgayenvironmentalfactorsandsoon.Butforthecausesoftheformationofhomosexualityisinnateoracquired,ithasnotyetbeendetermined.Homosex
5、ualsnegativepsychology(负面心理)Theinferioritycomplex(自卑心理)(自卑心理)Homosexual,theyfirmlydenytheirbehaviors,becausetheyfeelashamed.Theydonthavetheabilitytogetridofitandtheyarepainful.Theyfeelinferior,remorse,self-denial,andselfdepression,selfsealing.同性恋者,尤其已有过同性恋性行为者,对自己的同性恋坚决持否定态度,认为见不得人。自己又无力摆脱,常为此十分痛苦。自
6、卑、自责、自我否定,并因而自我压抑,自我封闭。Lastingambivalence(持久的矛盾心态持久的矛盾心态)Homosexualslifeisfullofcontradictions.Thecontradictionofsame-sexbehaviourandstraightofculturalconcept,thecontradictionsbetweenrationalconsciousnessandtheactualbehaviorandsoon,whichbroughtalotofpainforthem.Sogaygroupisaspecialsocialgroup,whofee
7、lthemostofpain.同性恋者的生活中充满了矛盾。同性行为与异性恋文化观念的矛盾,意识理性和实际行为的矛盾等等,这些矛盾带来了许多的痛苦,所以同性恋是社会群体感受痛苦最多的一个特殊群体之一。Mentaldepression(抑郁心理)Homosexualhasaclosedpersonality.Theyoftenfeeldepressed,ashamed.Especiallyintheagetheyarerequiredtogetmarried,ahugepressurefromfamily,societyandculture,makethemfeelingverydepressed
8、.Theylostconfidenceinthefutureandlife,sotheymuddlealong.Theyaredesperate,andwithdeepdepression,theyevenchoosetosuicide.同性恋者封闭,常常感到压抑,自卑、自愧。尤其是到了结婚的年龄时,来自于家庭、社会和文化的巨大压力,使他们感到十分的抑郁。他们对未来和生活失去了信心,得过且过,自暴自弃,甚至得抑郁症,想到要自杀。Thepsychologyofseekingtreatment(求治心理求治心理)Anumberofhomosexualcantacceptthefactsotheyu
9、rgethemselvestochangethefactthattheyarehomosexual.Butafterseekingthetreatment,theyrealizethatitisnoteasytochangethefactandtheninspecttheirbehavior.有相当一部分同性恋者无法接纳自己的同性恋趋向,强烈要求转变自己同性恋为异性恋,他们到处查找资料,秘密求医,甚至接受各种治疗,其中也不乏受骗上当者。只是在他们查找了许多资料认识到同性恋不易转变的结论后,才开始重新审视自己的求医行为。thepsychologyofstudyingthehomosexual(追
10、根求源心理)Theyoftenstudythesephenomena,especiallytheproblem“whyheishomosexual”,whichwillhelpthemtofindthecoursesandgaintolerantfromothersandthemselves.同性恋对自己的研究,尤其是对自己为什么是同性恋的研究十分投入,对各种研究结果,也十分敏感,似乎他们总期望在同性恋形成的根源中找到一种理由,找到一种理解,对自己是同性恋找到一种宽容。thepsychologyofcomplaining(仇视和抱怨心理)Someofthemwillthinkwhytheyca
11、ntenjoythebeautifullifeasothers,maybetheywillthinkitisunfairtothem.Thatswhysometimestheywillcomplainitandevenhatethesociety.Whatsmore,theyaresosensitivethattheyareeasytobehurtbytheonewhotheyloveverymuch.Whatwillshockusisthattherateofcrimepassionnel(情杀情杀)ishigher.为什么自己是同性恋而不能享受异性恋的幸福美满的家庭生活?他们会觉得命运不公
12、平,甚至感到嫉妒、怨恨。有极少数同性恋者甚至仇视社会和异性恋者。同性恋者对所恋对象的感情投入会很深,对对方的一举一动都会很敏感,嫉妒心会很强,一旦发现对方感情的转移,或背叛,常不能自拔,甚至发生报复行为。同性恋的情杀有时比异性恋的情杀案更残忍。LawAbouthomosexualitymarriageIn2001,theNetherlandsbecamethefristcountrytorecognizehomosexuality,andthehomisexualitymarriagesweresubsequentlyrecognizedinBeigium(2003)theUSstatesof
13、Massachusetts(2004)SpainandCanada(2005)SouthAfrican(2006)lowa(2009),Vermont(2009)Maine(2009)Norway(2009),Sweden(2009)Iceland,Portugal,andArgentina(2010)HomosexualitymarriageinIranHomosexualitymarriageisillegalandtheLGBwillbesentencedtohanginIran.homosexualitymarriageinAmericanTheWallJournalreportedt
14、hatinarecentsurvey,50%approvedofhomosexualitymarriage,while48%saidtheyopposedithomosexualitymarriageinChinaSincetheearly1990s,theChinagovermenthasbecomeincreasinglytolerantabouthomosexuality.By1997,thelawthatoutlawedsodomywasrepealed,whilehomosexualitywasofficiallyremovedfromthenationslistofmentalil
15、lnessin2001.ButhomosexualsarestillamarginalizedsocialgroupinChina.PeopleattitudestowardhomosexualInChina,somepeoplethinkhomosexualimmoralandevenabnormalandthereisnolawmadetoprotectitnowadays.Inforeigncountries,afewcountrieslikeCanadaandtheNetherlandshavedeclaredsame-sexmarriageslegal,butsomecountrie
16、sstillseehomosexualactasimmoral.Eveninliberal,moretolerantsocietiesliketheUS,comingout(revealingoneshomosexualityopenly)meansonecanfacealotofpressureandchallenges.PeopleattitudestowardhomosexualHowever,InthemodernWesternworld,perceptionsandattitudeshavebeenremarkablytolerantofhomosexuality,homosexua
17、lityisneitherasinnorsickness.Somescientistshavetriedtoprovethathomosexualityisnatural,othersthatitsageneticdeformityMyattitudeItisnottheirfaulttohavehomosexualtendency.Maybewhenweseetheiractions,wewillfeeluncomfortablebuteveryonewholivesinthisworldhastheirownwayoflife.Anyway,weshouldrespectthemandth
18、eyjustdowhattheylike.whatsyourattitude?Whatshouldwedo?Justbeequal.Why?Everyonehastheirlegallybasicrighttoliveandchoosehow.Loveisnotconfinedbyage,genderorstatus.Theexistenceofgayorlesdoesntdisturborharmothers.Loveisnotacrime.Loveshouldberespected.Afilm Yes or noNowaday,moreandmorepeopleknowthephenome
19、ronofhomosexualaroundtheworld.Butmanypeople,especiallybeforethegenerationof70slikemyparents,cantacceptthisrelationship.Althoughtherearesomepeopledontagreeorcantunderstandwithhomosexual,saidthattheywillleadtoseriousdiseaseandthereissomethingwrongwiththeirhead.Homosexualloveisoneofthetruelovewecantden
20、y.Yes or noNow,wewanttointroduceoneofhomosexualmovietoyou.Homosexualloveissametosimplelove.Shejustwantocareforsomeonesheloves.Shegotobuywhatshelikestoeatundertheheavyrain.Shedoessomethingfoolishtoshowherpureloveandexpactnothinginreturn.Noonecandolikethatwithoutlove.Sometime,youthinklong-distancelove
21、isfragile.Itsveryhardforthemtomaintainthesenseofsecurityandwarmfeeling.Asthepeoplesaidtome,ifyoulovesomeonefaraway,pleasebedeeporyoujustlethimgo.Actually,homosexualloveismorefragile.Theyafraidtolosetheylove,worried.oneofthemwillfallinlovewithsomeoneelse.Everydaytheymisseachother,theytalkwitheachothe
22、rjustthroughtthephone.ButtheystillcanfeeltheirpainandhappinessjustlikefacetofaceMaybe,onlythestrongerlovecafightagainstthelong-distance,fightagainsttheseparatetime,fightadainsttheworld.Theycherishtheirlovemorethansomeonewhohadmarraigedatpresent.Theirrelationshipdontneedtorelyonmarriagecertificateora
23、baby.Theirloveissotruethatcankeepforever.LoveexpressioninweiboIwanttoshareaspcialweiboforyou我爱陈凯欣.Somethingtheysaidintheweiboisthetrueessenceoflove.Now,letsmesharesomewordsIthinkprettygoodfromtheirweibo.Loveinweibo如果不是和米太一起可能我现在都只会顺便打一份工只求养得起自己之余每个月有家用给父母没有追求没有目标。一起后见到她喜欢的东西特别希望能买给她她渴望想去见识的地方特别想带她去就
24、是特别想努力让她过得更好的信念去奋斗当梦想不再是一个人的事便毫无懒惰的理由只因为她和未来更好的生活旅行前先問她哪裡想去有什麼想吃有什麼想買把這些地點都圈起來加入行程當中再搜索著名景點的介紹看實際圖片對比是否有必要遊玩訂酒店對比地點價格訂機票天天查爭取特價再看別人遊玩攻略查交通查注意事項。不讓她插手計劃安排好所有行程讓她到哪裡都是驚喜讓她到哪裡都只能依靠我一個。出去玩一天很累回到酒店直接趴在床上直接睡了米太會用毛巾輕輕幫我擦面塗乳液換衣服蓋被子,早上起床我會賴床米太會幫我拿好今天要穿衣服打包好行李箱把所有都處理好連牙刷都擠上牙膏事不大心卻細。一天對你好容易每天堅持細心待你卻很難口上說的永遠如同欺騙行動上的永遠才算對你在乎。Iloveyounotbecauseofwhoyouare,butbecauseofwhoIamwhenIamwithyou.