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1 Nothing Succeeds like the Appearance of Success
Every winner has a winning image ,which is called charisma ,charm ,personality ,style, flair or grace. Is it possible for someone to succeed without doing any hard work. The answer is certainly no. As we know, a man who is successful have to be a man who had done all the hard works he had to on his way to succeed, and overcome all the difficulties. He or she also have to be a person who has positive qualities which will help him a lot.For example, the famous basketball player whose name is Yao ming.Did he overcome a lot of difficulties? Yes, he did for sure. As a basketball player,he practices everyday for many times, again and again, never stop, and never give up. For so many years, he has been keeping his mind. Finally, he became one of the most famous basketball player of the NBA. He proved his worthy and also proved his success.Everyone who became successful like Yao ming was just working hard like him.Every winner has their own stories. They all show that nothing succeeds like the appearance of succeeds.
2How to win love?
There is a common opinion in the world about love. It's that love is a mixture of friendship and respect and appetite. Benjamin Franklin said,"If you would be loved,love and be lovable." If we want win love,we should double our efforts to improve ourselves according those three relationships above.
Furthermore,in my opinion,winning love can be divided into two parts.One is how to win your object's heart when you are in pursuit of her(him).The other is how to keep the love after you have built a love relationship with your object.
For the first situation,the key point is attracting your object's attention and making her fall in love with you.Tell her you love her strictly.Never talk about your love in a joking voice.Show her your advantages and tell her your disadvantages honestly.If she's gotten in trouble,go to help her as quickly as your can.Respect her works and her discissions.If you have done like these methods above,you have became a good friend with your object.To become a couple of lovers,you need the last cause,that is sexual attraction.Good look is only a little cause of sexual attraction.Clean dresses,good manners,decisive characters and responsibilities can make one(both for men and women)more attractive.
For the second situation,if you want to keep love,keep doing what you did when in pursuit of her.Never do as the stupid fish-man who said,"Why should I give it bait when I've gotten the fish?"A couple kept for many years looks more like friends than lovers,that is where friendship,respect and appetite work.
Then,young boys,take my suggestion and go to find your happiness!
3What Does the Fable mean to Me?
The moral lesson of The Ant and the Grasshopper is: Idleness brings want. But the author tells us a story of George and Tom to show his disagreement. I am inspired by the two stories, but I think the moral of the fable is that one must keep a good balance between material and spirit.
Firstly, material is the base of our living. So we should be industrious, just as the ant is busy gathering its winter store and George goes to work everyday. Industry can bring us food, help us make a living for our family, and even promote the social development. On the contrary, if everyone is idle, spends all day singing just like the grasshopper, or everyone is Tom--gambles,flirts with prettiest girls and even blackmails his own brother, we would be perfectly worthless and do harm to our family or society.
Secondly, spirit is our ultimate pursuit. Life is colorful. We shouldn’t be working like a horse all day, the life of the ant and George are too boring. We can live a happy life—sing and dance when we want, eat delicious food, live in expensive restaurant occasionally, and so on. We can do something interesting just like the grasshopper and Tom , but we should not violate moral principle.
In short, we should be industrious but don’t regard work as your whole life, and we can make our life colorful but do observe moral discipline.
There is a common opinion in the world about love. It's that love is a mixture of friendship and respect and appetite. Benjamin Franklin said,"If you would be loved,love and be lovable." If we want win love,we should double our efforts to improve ourselves according those three relationships above.
Furthermore,in my opinion,winning love can be divided into two parts.One is how to win your object's heart when you are in pursuit of her(him).The other is how to keep the love after you have built a love relationship with your object.
4E-mail A Blessing or A Curse?
E-mail has become a part of certain importance in almost everybody's daily life, maybe billions of emails are exchanged on the internet everyday. But with the quick development of internet and email technologies, there also are some bad impacts of email to people's life. For example, the worst can be called junk mails. Just like its name, it's really a kind of junk on the internet and your mailbox,there's nothing that matters with you or even contains some kind of virus sometimes, imagine this you are busy with your work everyday, and a most important part of your job is to check the email and reply to your customs, but when you open you mailbox, all you find is those Junk Mails! They might be called curse by some people, as it really influences your mood in life or work, or even worse what if the junk mail has some virus in it? When you open the mail unconsciously, you may have a big problem to deal with, nobody wants that to happen don't we. I just wonder why there are so many people creating junk mail everyday and send it to people all around the world! Yeah, it's better to find something useful in some junk mails, but seldom you can do that. However, we have to say all the things in the world have their bad and also good aspects at the same time, we just can't doubt about it. For emails, we have to consider that without it, a most part of people in the world would be died! People use emails to transfer informations emotions and other feelings! For a student studying abroad, it's definitely significant for him or her to send emails to parents, as you can see, emails are much cheaper than phone calls and much convenient sometimes. Love maybe the things talked about in most emails. If you can't say "I love You" in a real world, you may choose to send an email to him or her instead, that's much easier and also efficient. So when talking about things just like above, we have to admit that e-mails are blessing, at least it's more blessing than execrative. Thank god I haven't received too many junk mails but Blessing mails so far!
5Humor-A Pillow That Cushions the Blow
A sense of humor, God's greatest gift to mankind, is universally considered the most valuable personality. It is born within every person's heart,but has to be cultivated.A person without humor is just like a spring without flowers, or like a dish without seasoning. In a sense, your personality lies in your sense of humor. Humor can improve physical as well as mental well-being. It helps us bear our burdens, lessen our tension, overcome our frustration. With a piece of joke, all our worries and sadness disappear like smoke, and we are full of vigor once again. Humor helps us live in harmony with others. It is unavoidable to have misunderstanding and tension with others during work and study.
But humor can ease these problems quicker than angry words or quarrels. With it you can always keep on good terms with others. A sense of humor is really one of the keys to happiness. It gives fun and zest to life to make it worth living
my attitude towards life
Time flies! With each blink, I am getting old. Now I am already a twenty-year-old boy. As we all know, many people have done something successfully at this age,but I haven't . I have been blaming myself so much recently and I think I must do something to change the situation. First of all,I will set a exact goal for myself which is~~~~ secondly,I will make a long-term plan and also a schedule by which I can manage my time resonably Thirdly,to fufill my plan I will insist on working hard and if there are any problems with my plan, I will correct them in time ~~ I believe an old saying which is "action speak louder than words' So no matter how many setbacks are waiting for me and whatever I will sacrifice to achieve my goal , I will never give up !
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